The Original Headless Torso?
Four weeks into my search for a San Diego mystery man...
GHOST FROM THE PAST
I’m a film director and former reality TV host. I write about memory, digital hauntings, gay stuff, and the skeletons in my closet: some real, some metaphorical, some still texting me back.
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I’m looking for the man who ran one of the Internet’s first gay fitness sites
Here's what I know about him. I need your help.
I Became A Guest Star In My Own Story
I didn't want to post this, but here's why I did anyway
We Used To Be Tall
A dispatch from the wrong side of a queer crowd
The performance of casualness that isn't casual at all
We tell ourselves we aren't those people
Change Or Be Changed
I live close enough to the harbour that fog settles here first and leaves last, but the past week had been something else.
Making Documentaries Taught Me What Fiction Never Did
There were four words scrawled above the title of my latest story in black ink: NO SENSE OF PLOT.
Unfinished Business
I need your help
What story is your digital self telling about you?
What I found when I treated my own Instagram like a personnel file
A Second Helping From Satan
Being a guest on Sarah Marshall’s new podcast took me straight back to hell—in a good way.