I find it so amazing to hear "out there" that Feminine Energy is something you, as a women, need to "aspire to"... when, actually, Feminine Energy is what you already are... Every week, Rori Raye sits down with Siren School Director Natalina Love to work through deep, sometimes difficult, topics, situations and questions - and answers with completely original, irreverant and incredibly effective solutions. If you have questions for Rori, just email her at CoachRori.com, and you'll get a fast…
A man is fragile in many ways. He needs wins. He needs to have wins — with you. And here's what screws up that seemingly simple thing — giving him a win — and makes it feel nearly impossible most of the time — and literally the last thing you want to do most of the time... Come to the free Siren Awakening Workshp on Sunday, August 30th, here: https://roriraye.com/braving-the-deep/
So the question is, is that real? Does he make me feel bad, or is something happening inside me that I don't want to deal with? Are there feelings coming up that I don't want to see, that I don't want to look at? If you can't be angry at him without giving away your power, what are you supposed to be doing with that anger? Stomp it out, scream it out, get it out. Say: "I'm so angry. I feel so…
I’m getting this question a lot now. How can I tell if it’s intuition or a red flag? How can I tell if it’s intuition or old codependent stuff? You stop trusting yourself. So the game here, the fun of it, and the awesomeness of it, is to begin to trust yourself. Notice a feeling of peace that overcomes you, that takes care of you. Oh, that feels right. Now, you’re instinctively gonna question…
The trigger is your winner. Not your enemy.Your winner. Because without something instigating a shock to your system --upsetting the apple cart of your normal patterns --you just stay stuck. You're in a logjam.In one place.Forever. So the trigger happens.All the old patterns come up.And then you step back for a second and go: "Whoa. I felt that.That was old.Oh my goodness, I don't want to go…
If you're in a bad feeling place -- it could be your body. It could be grief. It could be something under the rug you haven't looked at yet. Most grief never goes away. It's always there, so you have to always be willing to feel it. Pick up your hand. Look at your palm. Follow the lines down. Stay with your hand. That was mindfulness. Now do it mindless. No thought. Nothing. Just take the hand in.…
You're stuck. Literally stuck. In a situation with a bad boss. A company that's going to fall apart. And you can see it coming... This is probably true for 99% of you. The people in power have absolutely no concept of what's actually being run by the people who know what they're doing. This is the state of existence. This is the world. So what do you do? Start your own choir.It doesn't mean you're…
We all get stuck. So the first step is always --fall in love with it.Fall in love with the stuck. It's like a log jam.Things get piled up.Things get barricaded.You've been in one emotion for a long time. And the log jam isn't the problem.Fighting it is. Stop resisting it.Pretend you're floating on your back in a sea of stuck.Let the water flow.Let the logs float. Feminine energy is the embracement…
We are in a new era. Women everywhere are rejecting men because of their values. Women are jumping away from the idea of relationship. And the problem is -- we don't have the framework to keep ourselves in a high level place while we sort it all out. So what does feminine energy actually feel like? It's not living from your head. It's living from down low. From your anchor. From your power source.…
You want to be 100% vulnerable Except that’s your nervous system telling you if you’re open, you’re gonna get mowed down. Your feminine energy is ferocious. It is powerful. It is protecting yourself in a different way than your masculine energy does. Your masculine energy protects you by closing yourself down, pushing him forward, staying mental, staying strategic. Your feminine energy goes: “I…
Life is a process. You are a process. You are a work in process. A work in progress. What’s progress? What’s the endpoint? There is no beginning. There is no end. I’ve been thinking about happiness. It’s really an interesting word. We take it for granted. “I’m happy.” Certain things make us happy that seem external: dancing, music, experiences, people. But try to zero in on the feeling itself when…
How can you find a man who is a giver rather than a taker? A man who is masculine rather than feminine? What do you do if you have a history of being attracted to men who are in their feminine? What do you do if you’re in a long-term relationship that you’re no longer happy with and you want something different? Trust starts internally—with trusting yourself, your intuition, your ability to make…