# newest submissions : AskMenAdvice A space to ask for men's advice about personal situations. Page: Feed: --- ## [Why does finding men attractive after being dumped /rejected feel like a humiliation ritual?šŸ˜­](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1w12f8k/why_does_finding_men_attractive_after_being/) _2026-08-28 Ā· /u/Fit\_Ad\_7343_ Basically a man (23M) rejected me( 22F) and chose another woman (very normal outcome when it comes to dating I know). Somehow years later I still feel chronic shame and embarrassment from the situation. The thought of posting myself more, meeting more people feels disgusting. After him I did find a man attractive and when he started flirting with me instead of feeling happy and curious about thisā€¦ ## [What is wrong with me?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1w12dty/what_is_wrong_with_me/) _2026-08-28 Ā· /u/Super\_Atmosphere\_479_ im a teen guy who never really explored the sexual side of myself mostly because im ashamed, i dont masturbate or watch porn and the problem im having is (this sounds so weird to say I hate it) I for some reason automatically look at peoples behind area and often times when they are bigger i feel a stronger pull to look this makes me feel like such a creep i donā€™t know why this is happening Iā€™veā€¦ ## [Do you find it rude if a woman looks at you at the gym ?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1w12a20/do_you_find_it_rude_if_a_woman_looks_at_you_at/) _2026-08-28 Ā· /u/Ill-Reflection9451_ )asking as a woman ) I usually don't wear headphones when I work out, except for when I'm doing cardio. I also don't use my phone because it's too much of a distraction, so instead I just let my eyes wander and watch other people workout of sheer boredom. I'm usually just look at their form or curious about a work out they do ( not stare like a creep or anything) but sometimes I catch myselfā€¦ ## [Why would a woman give you her IG, but then deny your follow request?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1w11sr3/why_would_a_woman_give_you_her_ig_but_then_deny/) _2026-08-28 Ā· /u/alex\_is\_alex_ Thereā€™s a woman at a local store I frequent. It seemed extremely obvious that she was interested and there was a mutual attraction. Itā€™s hard to explain body language and energy so letā€™s just assume she had a level of interest in me. The most recent time, she was being flirty and trying to qualify herself to me, so I asked for her Instagram and she was all smiles. She put her IG into my phone andā€¦ ## [Why am I addicted to sex so much?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1w11gth/why_am_i_addicted_to_sex_so_much/) _2026-08-28 Ā· /u/dylanth3villa1n_ context Iā€™m 20M and in my FOURTH year in uni and Iā€™ll admit that Iā€™m fairly attractive to most women and that has come with its pros and cons. The pros being I have more options,the cons being I end up biting off more than I can chew It gets to a point where youā€™re given sex so freely its actually starts to feel addictive. Itā€™s the thrill. You just want more and more. The banging, the late nightā€¦ ## [Men, which type of woman attracts you more at the beginning of a relationship?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1w10nyy/men_which_type_of_woman_attracts_you_more_at_the/) _2026-08-28 Ā· /u/customsoulgallery_ Men, at the beginning of a relationship, which type of woman attracts you more? A woman whoā€™s initially reserved, serious and a little hard to read, but becomes warmer and more playful once she gets comfortable with you? Or a woman whoā€™s outgoing, playful and very easy to joke around with right from the start? Iā€™m talking specifically about the beginning, so keep in mind the reserved one isnā€™tā€¦ ## [Should i text him since i have his number or he doesnā€™t like me?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1w107qi/should_i_text_him_since_i_have_his_number_or_he/) _2026-08-28 Ā· /u/singlewhitedad9_ He is a classmateā€™s brother. We met 1 year ago outside of the club. We talked about really nice normal topics.He did ask for my body count which was so out of pocket.Since i didnā€™t want to say, he said his was 9 (idk what to think of that?).I was telling him that am awful to guys( when i like a guy im cold and distant cause itā€™s embarrassing for me having a crush) but it came off as im just aā€¦ ## [I'm genuinely lost. My schedule is overpacked. How do I find balance when I'm driven by self-hatred and can't stop?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1w0zba4/im_genuinely_lost_my_schedule_is_overpacked_how/) _2026-08-28 Ā· /u/shinebrightmister_ Kind of chaotic to explain. Gonna try to keep this quick. I used to be a socially anxious broke obese virgin three years ago. I wasn't always that way. I had periods of success in my life in different areas but ultimately, that's where I ended up at 26. I thought I'd be happy just living a NEET life in peace and quiet and passing away quietly in old age. But something happened and I just snappedā€¦ ## [How can I find a man to commit to me?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1w0wxou/how_can_i_find_a_man_to_commit_to_me/) _2026-08-28 Ā· /u/throwitbackk89_ 40F. Iā€™ve been trying to find a LTR but all I find are men who only want sex from me. I keep getting lied to. The prevailing advice seems to be lower your standards because some men have options and wonā€™t settle. I did and Iā€™m still coming up short. I donā€™t go after ā€œchadā€ Iā€™ve matched with men who tell me they donā€™t get any matches. I posted on Reddit looking for a serious relationship and oneā€¦ ## [Stay updated on your professional world (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/d1GgXonbT3OY) _2026-08-28 Ā· **Sponsored**_ Keep in touch with people you know, build your career. ## [As a man in my mid 30s that just lost my mother too soon, how to transition from being very loved to being completely alone in this world?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1w0w9s9/as_a_man_in_my_mid_30s_that_just_lost_my_mother/) _2026-08-28 Ā· /u/HardTruthssss_ My mom always wanted to be a mother, she struggled for years to get pregnant, she tried everything to get pregnant but fertility doctors said she couldn't that it was no possible for her, after years of trying she tried one last thing and prayed to a saint which is said to make miracles. After that I was born. She loved me so much, she desired me so much, I always felt loved by her, she protectedā€¦