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it’s been more than 8 months now since i’ve found out about the betrayal. we’re together, but i am still thinking about it all the time. i want to feel like im above it, i don’t want to care about this so much. i have been completely destroyed and it just takes so long to rebuild myself. i feel so lost. submitted by /u/RepulsiveMidnight574 [link] [comments]
32F, 33M - together 11 years. **My partner has revealed things I never knew and I don't know what to do.** I’m completely heartbroken and could really use some outside perspective. My partner and I have been together for 11 years. For most of that time he has treated me incredibly well and always seemed to adore me. We were planning to start trying for children. I saw a message on his phone about…
Hello. I believe this would be the best group to provide advice to me. I (25F) and my boyfriend (25M) have been together for a bit over 5 years. We always had a strong foundation, but he is pretty conservative when it comes to talking or following people we had a past with. Even if it was a clean break > and turned friends, he was not okay with we speaking with other people that were like that,…
My wife has been obsessed with Audio Erotica for the last year or so. She started following multiple Voice Actors on sites like Quinn. At first it seemed innocent as she would listen to stories around the house… and our sex life and romance was amazing. However, as time went on, she became majorly obsessed with one of the Voice Actors. She joined his Patreon platform and would chat amongst the…
For those of you that chose to try again, rebuild, and their partner is actively trying to do better daily...that you both have been putting in the work... How many of you are haunted by nightmares of the past? Real or created by your mind? Something I am struggling with, and have to reality orient myself when I wake up. Do these pass eventually if you are working on everything, or do they just…
She's has ruined lives.Just because of little disrespect or feeling of betrayal she has ruined marriages. She was married to a guy and she came in a relationship with me.She is manipulative and pathological liar.she slept with a guy and told me on my face and later apologized.She play mind tricks with me.she don't get physical with me coz she doesn't feel like doing it. It's been more than two…
👋🏽 Hi I found out that my husband had been going to a massage place and getting massages with happy endings. This happened multiple times once on our anniversary, another time while I was pregnant, and again after we had just bought a house together. I’m beyond heartbroken and depressed. I was already struggling with postpartum depression, and finding this out has only made everything so much…
Help with closing this chapter with cheating ex… I have included my reason post for context… this an update from today (28th August), I always knew this would he difficult but I’m finding today particularly challenging as I went and collected the remainder of my stuff today from my exes parents house… and they basically said they were so disappointed with her behavior, she is distant, her Mum (I…
My Aunty has taken a turn for the worse and is in hospice and will likely die over the weekend. I am in London and she is in Australia. My whole family is in Aus and New Zealand. I am beside myself and feel so alone. My ex who cheated came to our apartment to pack for his trip, and pick up his things. We broke up a month ago, we were engaged to be married in a few months. I broke up with him…
I have a strong suspicion I’m being cheated on, no 100% proof but honestly given everything I just think I’m done. I’m basically starting from scratch, we arent married thank god but I have no money and am living off savings, family is all out of state (US) and I need to learn how to drive again. My partner has been hot and cold, overall just acting odd. Singing and dancing like he’s faking being…
