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I just wanted to say.. is it weird that I make myself feel in awe when I look in the mirror these days after had gone through much which destroys most people. I had to find self love in a real way and not in a egotistical way like I used to. The inbetween years of hate did a lot of damage, and all of that damage was undone in a pretty short period of time just by seriously turning my life around,…
to anyone who is reading this, you are gorgeous! please remember to stay hydrated, get lots of rest and sleep, never give up and make each day your masterpiece! wishing you all a wonderful day :) submitted by /u/CallFree5738 [link] [comments]
Idk where to start from im having a panic attack. I’ve been with someone who narcissistic abused me for almost two years and our relationship consisted of him glazing his ex 24/7 and then saying sorry to me then saying she’s the perfect woman ever the next day. From there things went even more shit and a SHIT TON OF stuff happened that fucked up my nervous system pretty bad and he sexually…
I used to think I was pretty self-aware. I knew my flaws. I knew my patterns. I knew every single one of my triggers, and if you asked me why I just did something stupid, I would have broken it down line by line like a scene from Blow. And for some reason, I swore I was growing. But if that was really the case, why the fuck am I still naming it? It’s like saying my check engine light is on and…
I’ve spent years working on myself. Therapy. Reading. Journaling. All of it. And I’m still not “healed.” Thankfully. Because here’s what I’ve realized: “Healed” isn’t a human state. It’s a role. It’s a position you have to maintain. An ideal you have to perform. Once “healed” becomes your identity, other people’s perception of you starts to matter too much. And then what happens when you mess up?…
Normal is a tricky word because it can make something harmful look acceptable just because it is familiar. Something can happen many times, happen to many people, or happen for many years and still not be safe, healthy, truthful, or good for you. Time and repetition do not prove that something belongs in your life. They only prove that you adapted to it. This is where a lot of people stay stuck.…
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Can someone please help if they have gotten over a situation while being “with these people around you in the same environment” What would you do if someone you call family or family friends who you HAVE to meet or keep up with, due to your own parents or elders? And they always OVERLOOK on your boundaries? Like they post your pictures online, group pictures even when you have said NO, like a…
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