# newest submissions : mypartneristrans This is a supportive, educational, and safe space for the partners of trans and gender-diverse people. All are welcome, regardless of your own gender identity. Please read the rules before posting or commenting. Page: Feed: --- ## [Binding](https://www.reddit.com/r/mypartneristrans/comments/1w1v7yr/binding/) _2026-08-29 · /u/pinkstarfragment_ My wife just came out last night for the first time as wanting to identify as a trans man, although she has been on hrt for 3 weeks and I’ve administered every shot. I’ve just been waiting for them to own it. She just came home from the pharmacy and asked if I would help her tape down her boobs with KT tape. After about an hour and several TikTok tutorials. It was unsuccessful. She cried and I… ## [I have a crush on a trans girl, but she's taken and I'm taken too](https://www.reddit.com/r/mypartneristrans/comments/1w1tyju/i_have_a_crush_on_a_trans_girl_but_shes_taken_and/) _2026-08-29 · /u/strangerwalking333_ She's literally been on my mind non stop. Only issue, she's in a relationship with several people (polyamorous). Hearing her say her sexual encounters is a little conflicting but also makes me curious. I only have a crush on her but I've also never tried polyamory. I'm not gonna automatically assume they'd add me to their relationship but it's interesting hearing about their dynamics. . At the… ## [I wish I was a better ally](https://www.reddit.com/r/mypartneristrans/comments/1w1sp05/i_wish_i_was_a_better_ally/) _2026-08-29 · /u/Ok-Carpet-9302_ First of all, let me go through the stereotypes: Not a native English speaker, and I'm typing this in a mentally unstable state. I have never posted anything in reddit before, so I can't promise the formatting will be alright. Please, be kind, and please don't send me any direct messages. I'm going to use he/him pronouns for my partner because, after explicitly asking, he said those were the… ## [can two bottoms make it work? open relationship? asexuality? horomones? help pls :(](https://www.reddit.com/r/mypartneristrans/comments/1w1nvek/can_two_bottoms_make_it_work_open_relationship/) _2026-08-29 · /u/Beautiful\_Crab\_7979_ hi y’all! this is my first post here and i think i need some support. bare with me if this feels all over the place, it’s 7am and i can’t sleep :( me (29 NB AFAB) and my girlfriend (29 MTF) of 3 years are having trouble in the bedroom because we are both inexperienced sexually and bottoms. i am also coming to more of the realization recently that i am definitely somewhere on the ace spectrum. my… ## [My partner just came out as trans](https://www.reddit.com/r/mypartneristrans/comments/1w1d5l6/my_partner_just_came_out_as_trans/) _2026-08-29 · /u/pinkstarfragment_ I am an exmo cis woman. I divorced my ex husband of 8 years and came out as a lesbian. After living with my sexual identity for 5 years and getting remarried to a woman, they just came out as a trans man.. and I am heartbroken. I don’t know what this means for us, and I love that they are exploring who they are, because I’ve been there too in a marriage dynamic and it’s not l a fun process.… ## [feelings of jealously](https://www.reddit.com/r/mypartneristrans/comments/1w155lq/feelings_of_jealously/) _2026-08-28 · /u/Zealousideal\_Serve74_ hi! I (f21) and my partner (mtf21) have been together for nearing five years - she came out around a year down the line, and started e around a year ago. She is the shining light of my life, she makes me so so very happy, but like a lot of other trans couples, we struggle when it comes to sex. I think it may fall on me mostly, because I feel jealous of her, and have felt more as her body has begun… ## [any hard packer/strap recs](https://www.reddit.com/r/mypartneristrans/comments/1w11e2i/any_hard_packerstrap_recs/) _2026-08-28 · /u/DimensionLess7358_ My(cis f) boyfriend(ftm) said he doesn’t want a realistic hard packer- he doesn’t prefer the veins and colors when they are realistic. I wanted to know if anyone had any recommendations of where to look if we just want a plain black one without major veins or a pronounced tip. Ive been looking for them but the plain black ones are all semi-realistic or are peggers. for more info he plans on… ## [Weekly Joy Thread!](https://www.reddit.com/r/mypartneristrans/comments/1w0ukwa/weekly_joy_thread/) _2026-08-28 · /u/AutoModerator_ Hey Friends! While this is a support space, and sometimes we work on heavy stuff, we want to celebrate the wins and milestones, too! What brought you joy this week? Any fun plans for the weekend? Share your thoughts here! submitted by /u/AutoModerator \[link\] \[comments\] ## [Struggling a bit with what my partner's transition means for our relationship dynamic](https://www.reddit.com/r/mypartneristrans/comments/1w0ppct/struggling_a_bit_with_what_my_partners_transition/) _2026-08-28 · /u/OpportunityFun4261_ I'm bisexual and I'm struggling a bit with some feelings around my partner's transition. I'd really like to hear from people who have experienced something similar. When we started dating, she was already transitioning, although she still presents as male in some areas of her life. She wants to transition further if insurance etc works out, and I genuinely support that. I love her and want her to… ## [Crush Every Threat in Real Time (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/o0ubNVtY4BkB) _2026-08-28 · **Sponsored**_ One agent for real-time detection, exposure tracking, and active defense. ## [Looking for breakup support: my partner and I growing apart](https://www.reddit.com/r/mypartneristrans/comments/1w0feum/looking_for_breakup_support_my_partner_and_i/) _2026-08-28 · /u/Emotional-Court-3680_ My transmasc (he/they) partner and I (they/she, nonbinary, afab) are breaking up. The main reason is because he wants to be able to explore his sexuality in ways he never got to (dating men as a man, being poly, etc etc). For context, we got together shortly after he transitioned (both top surgery and starting T). In the two years we have dated, he has always said I was enough (both romantically…