I am not gonna lie, I do not have the best social skill. There were times when I really tried to be better at it, but daaammmnnn, people are the worst. Let me break it down point by point. 1.Reactive abuse (I personally would call it reactive defense). Most normal people have some limit of patience. But if you keep on hurting, dismissing, invalidating, belittling, provoking, you will eventually…
Is it their consistency, honesty, intelligence, ability to understand you, or something completely different? Curious to hear how other INTJs see this. If you want to hear more INTJ perspectives and share your own, we’ve got a whole MBTI community on Discord. 👇 https://discord.gg/XUgAAunYRH submitted by /u/Aymaneelbissis [link] [comments]
When I’m interested in someone I noticed that I have a tendency to get obsessed with everything about them and start stalking them on social media (not in a creepy way, just trying to see more of them because I find them interesting). They start occupying so much space in my mind and I even start fantasising about scenarios that include them. Does this happen to any other INTJs? submitted by…
You are just a loser who keeps trying, keeps planning, and listening to Radiohead. The only thing changes when you do. Abusrd world keeps nudging you to do great. At the same makes your miserable. submitted by /u/Fickle-Physics5284 [link] [comments]
If you had a superpower that granted you some kind of ability to protect/fight, would you be a superhero (government-sanctioned), a vigilante (outside the law but have a moral code) or an anti-hero (ie killing bad people for the better)? When I was younger, I used to think I’d just hide my powers and live normally, until I grew up and realized if anyone has the power to protect others they should…
This seems very unlikely, but anyone here a social worker? I’m empathetic, but not emotional. I’m not judgmental. I’ve always been a reserved oddball myself, but I’m friendly when approached. People that “annoy everyone” generally don’t bother me much. People feel comfortable talking to me and venting. Drunk people don’t bother me either. I have a lot of law enforcement in my family, but that will…
Some people believe that language is what makes thinking and thus consciousness possible in the first place. Others think without an internal monologue. How is it for you? Do you think in words or without language? submitted by /u/Alarming-Pie3269 [link] [comments]
I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I get SO MAD at people because I feel like they are just willfully ignorant to make their lives easier. One of my biggest triggers is ordering food and not getting all of the sauces I paid for that are blatantly on the ticket. I know it’s not rational…..but I worked at several restaurants and I mean I never messed up the way some other people consistently do. I…
Hi yall! Obviously human experience is diverse, but theory wise, I looked up what cognitive functions might have an effect of how much you clean, cause I’ve always struggled with getting into a cleaning routine for more than a few days. I have diagnosed ADHD but I thought INTJ might be more susceptible to it because- Ni is very abstract and not focused on the present moment, and inferior Se is, by…
I realized a few years ago that I will only get to experience every age in life for a single year. Not long after, it finally set in that I will only get to experience life in its totality a single time. Similarly to how number theory posits that there are an infinite number of values between 1 and 2, I understood in the most profound and real sense that every moment that passed really did matter…