A Letter to Burnout

It’s July.

The sun is finally shining, at least today, and I’m grateful for that. I’m also grateful for this season of life. So much of what I once hoped and prayed for is here. I get to do meaningful work, I’m surrounded by people I love, and there are so many moments I don’t take for granted.

And yet, despite all there is to be grateful for, this season still feels like it demands more of me than I have the energy to give.

Lately, my days have felt full but strangely dull. I'm busy, constantly moving, yet not always present enough to enjoy the life I'm working so hard to build. And I know I'm not alone in feeling this way. Between everything happening in our own lives and everything happening around the world, it's no surprise that many of us are running on empty.

Burnout is often understood as the result of chronic, unmanaged stress. While it’s most commonly associated with work, research suggests that caregiving, emotional labour and the ongoing demands of everyday life can create similar patterns of exhaustion, disconnection and feeling less like ourselves.

And while I've been navigating this season myself, I can't help but wonder if burnout is also a form of longing. Not just a sign that we’ve done too much, but a signal that something inside us is asking for more. More meaning. More presence. More joy.

As children, many of us woke up wanting to explore. Curiosity came naturally. Joy wasn’t something we scheduled, it was something we stumbled into. As adults, responsibilities grow, people depend on us, and we often make choices because they’re practical and necessary. Those choices aren’t wrong. But sometimes we wake up and realize we’ve been surviving a life that no longer feels like our own.

Perhaps what we need isn’t a completely different life, but reminders that we still have choices in how we live this one. Our nervous system learns through experience, and research on exposure therapy reminds us that change happens through lived reality, not just reflection.

When we introduce ourselves to new environments, routines or moments that feel safe and supportive, our nervous system begins to learn that life can be different. We don’t think our way into feeling safe or joyful, we experience our way there.

Maybe that’s what burnout is inviting us to do.

Not to become more productive.

Not to push through.

But to become curious again.

Curious about what gives us energy. Curious about what we’ve outgrown. Curious enough to believe that joy isn’t gone, it’s just waiting for us to make room for it again.

Burnout isn’t the end of the story. It’s the beginning of a more honest one. 💛

As always, stay cozy!

Myriam

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