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She Can't Say - the Trans Widow

Converted a poem by Rachel Irischild ("He tells her") to a song, added chorus, instrumentals. https://soundcloud.com/kat-karena/she-cant-say-original He Tells Her by Rachel Irischild. He tells her he’s a woman too He has a ladybrain He tells her his identity and hers; they are the same He tells her not to talk about her body; it’s not fair her body is her privilege his own, a cross to bear He…

When Women’s Lived Experience Is Redefined Without Us

As a women in my early 50s, I have been experiencing menopausal symptoms for several years - ranging from sleep disturbances to fairly severe hot flashes. I was told by a trans-woman who takes no hormones and has undergone no gender affirming care that (s)he, too, experiences menopausal symptoms. When I asked for clarification about what exactly that meant, (s)he said that (s)he was also…

Never happens, happens again

I was sexually assaulted by a trans identified male. He even went as far as to film the attack. Despite the clear evidence (I can be...

Can you 'transition' an ingrained sense of male superiority?

I have a close friend named S, who is on the autism spectrum. One of the ways it affects her life is through touch. She cannot tolerate...

Censored for Stickers: Feminist Expression Banned in the Workplace

Just thought I would share a recent experience at my workplace. I am a 53 year old high school teacher in Brisbane. Since all teacher...

No escape for women...

I am so bloody sick of being obedient to men. At my University in Sydney, there are stickers prominently displayed in many of the ladies’...

Alienation of Young Butch Lesbians

Hi. I'm a young butch lesbian (20s) who recently moved to a major Australian city for university. Growing up outside of metropolitan...

Young woman prisoner cornered in Canadian jails by male prisoner

I'm a Canadian woman, who was in jail in 2019. In 2018, Canada permitted self-identification as a reason for males to be allowed to be...

If men harass you in the women's toilets no matter, just 'speak up'

The main University of Queensland Student Union building on the St Lucia campus does not have single sex toilets. The sex signs had been...

We Did Not Consent

I have played women's hockey for 30 years. I have played in the women's top grade for my state. I now play in the women's 3rd grade...

Lesbians going underground

I am in Victoria. But the community of lesbians is national. We have been having national gatherings since 1989. We have been challenged...

AGPs here, AGPs there, AGPs everywhere

Thank you for doing this. I live in London. The change rooms at my local lido (outdoor swimming pool) were redone at a cost of millions...

Lesbians divided

(H.O.) posted an article about LGB Alliance Ireland (co-written by Lauren Black) on a lesbian social group FB page in N. Z. on 22/8/2021...

Lesbian expression is "anti-trans genderism"

In February 2021, I posted a purple image onto a lesbian social facebook page. It was in response to a Green Party announcement. It said...

Trans women threatening lesbians

On the NZ Lesbians Social Group fb page on 11th Nov. 2020 I saw discussion of storming into a lesbian's workplace with a 'troop'. So I...

Male 'celebrity' centering himself in women's only meeting

I am a sober member of Alcoholics Anonymous who has been sober a number of decades. I was struggling during Covid lockdown due to...

What male stalkers can follow you inside

Dear No Conflict They Said, Thank you for your brilliant website and initiative to encourage us to send in our stories to you. Here's...

Trans-identifying Men in Nursing Homes and Community Care - part 4

Health care is a field where entering nude situations is part of the job. The media and activists state that nude situations require...

Trans Identifying Men in Nursing Homes and Community Care - part 3

At the state election, my labour politician was handing out how-to-vote cards. I told him my problem and that I feared losing my job if I...

Trans Identifying Men in Nursing Homes and Community Care - part 2

While working in community care, I visited a female transgender person. She wore football clothes, had a male name and had short boy...