Some of the worst investment decisions I’ve made started with a perfectly reasonable thought: I don’t want to miss this one.
At the time, it felt like diligence. The company was moving quickly. The round was competitive. Other funds were circling. There was just enough evidence to believe and just enough uncertainty to make waiting uncomfortable.
Looking back, the failure wasn’t analytical, it was emotional.
Doing nothing is harder than doing something. And in investing, that difference matters far more than we tend to admit.
Anxiety masquerades as progress
Action feels productive. Writing a check creates a sense of resolution. The open loop closes. The internal tension quiets.
Passing does the opposite. It leaves the question alive. You don’t get the relief of commitment, only the low-grade discomfort of uncertainty. What if this works? What if I’m wrong?
Humans are wired to prefer closure, even bad closure, over ambiguity. So we act. Not because the expected value is compelling, but because acting soothes anxiety.
Charlie Munger used to say that “the big money is not in the buying or selling, but in the waiting.” That sounds obvious in hindsight, but in practice waiting feels like negligence. Like indecision. Like falling behind.
Activity relieves discomfort. It does not reduce risk.
FOMO is not information
In venture, urgency is often framed as a data point. Fast-moving rounds, compressed timelines, social proof from respected firms, all of it creates the impression that speed equals insight.
But FOMO isn’t information about the company. It’s information about the investor.
It tells you you’re afraid of being left out of a future narrative. It tells you you’re benchmarking yourself against peers instead of probabilities. It tells you you’re human.
Howard Marks has written for decades about second-level thinking, the idea that successful investing comes from understanding not just what’s happening, but how others are reacting to it. FOMO lives firmly at the first level. It’s the market’s emotional contagion, mistaken for signal.
The mistake is treating that feeling as insight rather than noise.
The discomfort of waiting
Waiting is emotionally expensive.
You watch other funds deploy. You see founders you passed on announce large follow-on rounds. You feel the quiet pressure of quarters going by without visible “wins.” You start to wonder if discipline looks suspiciously like stagnation.
This is the part of investing that never shows up in your performance numbers.
Warren Buffett’s track record is often attributed to temperament rather than intellect, and this is what people mean. Berkshire can sit on tens of billions of dollars in cash for years, doing almost nothing, while the rest of the market convinces itself that inactivity is irresponsible.
Buffett once compared investing to baseball with no called strikes. You don’t have to swing. You can wait indefinitely for your pitch. The problem is that psychologically, most people feel compelled to swing anyway.
Doing nothing feels like falling behind, even when it’s exactly what the strategy requires.
The false reward loop
Investing creates a dangerous feedback cycle: action is visible, restraint is invisible.
Checks get celebrated. Deals get announced. Conviction gets praised. Over time, this subtly trains behaviour. You begin to associate progress with activity rather than judgment.
The market ultimately rewards outcomes, but humans reward action.
This is why overtrading is such a persistent problem across asset classes. Studies of public-market investors consistently show that the most active traders underperform, not because they lack intelligence, but because they confuse engagement with edge.
Venture is not immune to this. If anything, the long feedback cycles make it worse. You can spend years feeling productive before discovering you were simply busy.
Inaction as a form of discipline
Doing nothing is often mistaken for passivity. In reality, it’s one of the most active decisions an investor can make.
Consider Sequoia’s early history. The firm is famous for its successes, but what’s less discussed is how selective it was during long stretches of its existence. Entire market cycles went by with minimal deployment, not because opportunities didn’t exist, but because the bar wasn’t met.
This kind of restraint is not accidental. It requires a willingness to tolerate short-term discomfort in exchange for long-term clarity.
At Nascent, we think of capital less as inventory and more as optionality. Once deployed, it’s gone, not just the money, but the attention, the conviction, and the future flexibility that capital represents. Preserving that optionality is itself a strategic choice.
What disciplined inaction actually looks like
Doing nothing doesn’t mean disengaging. It means being deliberate about why you’re not acting.
It looks like writing down the reasons you passed, not to protect your ego, but to give future you honest data. It looks like keeping track of the deals that almost made it, not to second-guess yourself, but to refine your pattern recognition. It looks like revisiting old decisions with humility rather than regret.
Seth Klarman has written that successful investing is about avoiding mistakes rather than making brilliant moves. In a power-law business, a small number of decisions matter enormously. Most others simply need to not be harmful.
Waiting isn’t passive. It’s protective.
The long view
The longer I do this, the more I believe that investing is less about decisiveness and more about emotional control. Not the ability to move quickly, but the ability to wait without flinching.
Most people can act under pressure. Far fewer can sit with uncertainty without mistaking it for a problem that needs to be solved.
In venture, doing nothing is rarely rewarded in the moment. There’s no applause for restraint. No immediate narrative. But over time, it’s often the difference between noise and signal, and between action and progress.
The art of investing is not knowing when to act. It’s knowing when not to.
Until next time!
Archie, Victor and Bernardo
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