Women got their hands on the iPhone in the 2010s and immediately started broadcasting their Tinder CockMaxxing on every platform that would take it. Men had no framework for what they were seeing.
The girl who sat next to you in biology class is using her family vacation photos to post her ass for the entire internet?
Yes.
Everyone is just showing their ass on Facebook, Tumblr, Instagram, LiveJournal, Reddit. Everyone?
Yes.
Not just the trashy girls who smoke outside the gas station. The honors AP girls too? Straight up ass posting like a Craigslist prostitute?
Yes.
The sudden high volume visibility of female sexual behavior seen en masse for the first time was a genuine cultural shock.
It’s one thing for a bitter divorced dad to type “all women are whores” on an anonymous message board after his wife took the house and his teenage daughter got a septum piercing. That kind of ranting had been going on since Usenet in the '90s. It’s another thing entirely to open Facebook or Instagram and see it with your own eyes: not just the expected whores being whores (that too had been happening for a while) but normal seemingly well adjusted women like your friend’s sister or your cousin’s ex posting themselves as full-blown whores in graphic unambiguous detail.
Men needed somewhere to process this shift. The Manosphere was the only place that would let you talk about it out loud: how your history teacher’s daughter was cheating on her husband deployed in Iraq advertising her ass every day with tasteful and not so tasteful nudes all of them shot by some guy who was definitely not the husband because the husband was busy swerving around IEDs and giving himself PTSD.
The real problem with men talking about women being whores on the internet is the talking itself. Men are not supposed to talk. They are supposed to be the strong, silent type who believes everything at face value. The beach butt photos? Those were empowering and a symptom of patriarchal male oppression at the same time. The strong masculine man is expected to silently understand that contradiction and more importantly, eat the cost. That is the important part. The more men talk about the situation the less likely they are to keep eating the cost. Which is why it is preferable that men stay quiet. And if they do start talking, that is toxic masculinity and needs to be censored off every social media platform.
Rohan Ghostwind does his best to write a polite response to liberal USC professor Darby Saxbe. He spends several paragraphs carefully softening the critique before finally giving in to temptation and letting the snark flow:
Saxbe gives us an insight into masculinity 3.0 — which is basically just going “You know what real masculinity is?” And then answering it by saying things that just personally make her life better.
“You know what real masculinity is? Staying home with the kids while I make the money.”
“You know what real masculinity is, doing the dishes and neglecting your workout regimen so that your wife can get more sleep.”
“You know what real masculinity is? Voting Democrat and donating 10% of your annual income to funding your local Planned Parenthood.”
While Rohan does an excellent job diagnosing Darby Saxbe’s self serving solipsism dressed up as science, I disagree with his decision to frame the debate as a gender war. We are not in a gender war. Anyone who’s seen a supermarket bill knows we are in a class war in which gender is simply a vector of attack. Saxbe can’t fight in a gender war because she doesn’t know what a woman is or will choose to forget what a woman is at the sight of the first tranny. There are no women anymore only birthing people. And the way inflation has been going, the middle class is set to disappear in five years. Comrades we are in a class war.
To rephrase “Real Masculinity is Catering To Women” out of archaic gendered language and into the operative economic logic of our day: Masculinity is Exit Liquidity. You are the buyer of last resort when the upside has already been extracted
What does that mean? Corporations make money by extracting value and externalizing costs onto women. Your job is to bail them out. Your job is to buy at the Euphoria top and be the bagholder while the whales run off with the money. That is exit liquidity. When her employer has extracted all possible value and she is a fat, bloated mess on SSRIs with an aborted baby in the closet, your job is to be the support system.
Donald Trump loves rug pulling his patriotic fan base with his ShitCoin scam. Corporations live by rug pulling your stupid woman and having you pay for it. You think Facebook or Instagram could be profitable without millions of women volunteering for pro bono soft prostitution? Obviously not. Social media needs content, which is why women have for whatever reason decided to collectively volunteer their ass while throwing the emotional consequences onto their husband.
A liberal husband bails out the woman by being an emotional support beta. A conservative husband bails out the corporation directly by inhaling fumes, contracting mesothelioma, or maybe even getting his legs blown off in Iraq. If the banks make bad bets then the Federal Reserve just bails them out by devaluing your grandma’s retirement. That is moral hazard. Privatize the gains and socialize the risk.
Call me a communist but Darby Saxbe’s real job is to keep the proletariat so confused, to burden their soul with trivialities through her bourgeois moral fetishism, that men do not ask why all women are so tired and overworked all of a sudden and just shut up and pay their rapidly appreciating student loans.
We live in a liberal, capitalist society. All moral discourse is a ruse to externalize costs onto someone else. The minute anyone starts using the word masculinity, know that they are trying to move those costs onto you. The minute a beta male bag buyer begins talking about investment opportunities with that signature beta male confidence know the game is already up. His job is to stand there confidently as the fall guy while the real players scramble out the door to safety.
Stop thinking this is a gender war or a culture war. Nobody knows what gender even is anymore and America is a goyslop melting pot anti culture. This is an economic war to extract as much surplus out of you as possible and leave you holding the costs. Your girlfriend posts her ass to feed Instagram. You eat the cost and get your legs blown off in Iran. But most important of all keep your fucking mouth shut.
Talking about any of this is Toxic Masculinity. Real Positive Masculinity means you eat every cost. Just don't ask who all of this is actually positive for, because it’s not you.
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