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of soil & stars zine · Apr 12, 2026

Embracing Our Exiles

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Mindy Tsonas Choi · of soil & stars zine

First . . . a big welcome to all new subscribers! It has been a while since I’ve integrated all the various lists. So, if you are newly receiving this, I am truly grateful for the invitation to your inbox and this connection between us. <3

There is a Korean word that I think about often which we do not have an equivalent for in the English language; jeong 정.

We have no word like jeong, because it specifically refers to a core cultural concept of interconnection. Its meaning speaks to a collective bond that goes beyond individual love and friendship. It encompasses a communal sense of mutual care and responsibility for others, even strangers. Jeong is a broad affection and sense of empathy and loyalty that inspires relational action in big and small ways. It weaves all Korean people together across time, place, and differences.

What I’ve always thought of as collective belonging, I’ve recently realized, is in essence jeong.

How this ideological orientation stayed with me across time, oceans, cultures and language is a poignant example of how wholeness can prevail against forces of fragmentation. It has helped me better understand my deeply rooted beliefs about belonging in a very unique and embodied way.

Embracing our infinite multitudes, even our exiles — especially those, helps us practice belonging as confluence and integration. As a somatic IFS facilitator I see how it is always our exiles, the parts of us we struggle with the most, that need our greatest care, compassion, safety and witnessing. Practicing our own wholeness helps us reach for a kind of defragmented, collective belonging that feels to me like jeong, both within us and between us.

Let’s practice together.

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