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AI has turned solo developers into something new: part programmer, part supervisor of a tireless digital team. The productivity gains are staggering, but so are the risks. From debugging miracles to dangerous blind spots, this is an honest look at what it’s really like building software with AI.
Sorting your projects brings clarity. Structuring your time brings progress. In Part 2, I share the Four-Tier System that helped me protect deep work, batch by brain mode, and stop choosing coffee over tea when it mattered most.
Most project lists fail because they treat every goal like it deserves equal urgency. This essay introduces a simple framework, Current, Future, Archived, that turns guilt into clarity and helps you focus on one meaningful project at a time.
A man spent 20 minutes choosing bananas at Costco, and I realized I was him. This is the psychology of decision paralysis, and the simple rule that helped me stop optimizing everything.
My phone died mid-walk, and my dogs reminded me what productivity culture steals: your ability to be here. A story about grief, attention, and a 30-second reset that makes life feel like life again.
Part II of my year-end reflection turns into a practical 2026 plan: one rule that keeps resolutions alive past January. Small habits, real life, “oops” plans, and a little social gravity, plus the reminder that productivity isn’t worth losing the people you’re doing it all for.
Three weeks into January 2025, I woke up and didn’t want to start the day. Not suicidal, just done. This is what stayed when everything else felt like it was slipping: small movement, honest words, gratitude without surrender, and the stubborn decision to keep going.
In 2024 I optimized everything. In 2025 I started asking what I was optimizing for. Here are the books I kept orbiting as I debugged the source code.
You’re not supposed to have life figured out by 25. Or 35. Or even 55. This piece explores the “seasons of life”, exploration, stability, disruption, reinvention, and why feeling lost doesn’t mean you’ve failed. You’re not late. You’re just in a season. The question is: what will you do with it?
We love to say “hopefully soon” about the projects that matter most. This piece is a gentle but honest push to start anyway, messy room, busy brain and all.
I accidentally became a company’s AI guru and built an on-premise AI assistant in just four days, without being an AI expert. Here’s the hilarious, painful, espresso-fueled story of how it happened, what broke, what worked, and why hard things don’t get easier… but definitely get doable.
A modern look at five Stoic lessons from Marcus Aurelius that still work. From controlling the story in your head to accepting reality without surrendering to it, here’s how an ancient emperor can help you think clearer, live better, and stop spiraling over unread emails.
Old radios, new earbuds. Here are 10 timeless sci-fi listens, vintage radio dramas and classic audiobooks that still hit hard, plus a modern bonus (Project Hail Mary). Expect links to Audible, BBC, LibriVox, and the Internet Archive.
In a world obsessed with doing more, here’s a radical idea: do nothing. Not as avoidance, but as rebellion. This isn’t a guide to productivity, it’s a quiet permission slip to exist without optimizing.
After burning out on a massive project, I started learning Sumerian, a language no one’s spoken in 4,000 years. What began as a useless obsession turned into a lesson on meaning, burnout, and the quiet joy of doing hard things that don’t need to matter.