# Mental Submission Helping women claim power and men to find purpose. A lifestyle domme's guide to BDSM, sexual psychology, female-led relationships, and dating with a functional hierarchy. Page: Feed: --- ## [Sadistic Woman Seeks Submissive Male Soulmate](https://mentalsubmission.substack.com/p/sadistic-woman-seeks-submissive-male) _2026-08-11 · Daphne Merian_ On dating with intention when kink is a deciding factor ## [How Freaky Are You? Studying 14,000 Anonymous People's Freak](https://mentalsubmission.substack.com/p/how-freaky-are-you-studying-14000) _2026-08-07 · Daphne Merian_ Note: This article was previously published at 1,030 results, and has been updated with new freaky data ## [Ask a Domme: When are kinky outfits OK in public?](https://mentalsubmission.substack.com/p/ask-a-domme-when-are-kinky-outfits) _2026-07-29_ This week in Ask a Domme, I’ll give advice on: ## [How to Find His Prostate in 10 Steps](https://mentalsubmission.substack.com/p/find-his-prostate-in-10-steps-or) _2026-07-23 · Daphne Merian_ A treasure hunt where everyone wins ## [Dominant Burnout](https://mentalsubmission.substack.com/p/dominant-burnout) _2026-07-16 · Daphne Merian_ When making all the decisions is exhausting instead of the usual fun, and how you can make it easier for your domme ## [Calling all Eunuchs](https://mentalsubmission.substack.com/p/calling-all-eunuchs) _2026-06-01 · Daphne Merian_ My unrealistic but incredibly sexy castration fantasies ## [The Biggest Mistakes New Subs Make](https://mentalsubmission.substack.com/p/the-biggest-mistakes-new-subs-make) _2026-05-27 · Daphne Merian_ I don’t mind breaking in new submissives. ## [I'm a Sexual Sadist](https://mentalsubmission.substack.com/p/im-a-sexual-sadist) _2026-05-18 · Daphne Merian_ Inside the mind of someone who gets off on hurting others ## [Ask a Domme: How can I be a confident Domme?](https://mentalsubmission.substack.com/p/ask-a-domme-how-can-i-be-a-confident) _2026-05-15_ This week in Ask a Domme, I’ll tell you how to reconcile kink/sex when both partners have different needs, how to enter Dommespace when you’re not feeling confident, and what questions I would ask a potential partner ## [Auto-trade Cross-Exchange Gaps (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/sMdo49UecIB6) _2026-05-15 · **Sponsored**_ Find cross-exchange spreads, backtest strategies, and execute automatically with risk controls. ## [The Power of a Mirror](https://mentalsubmission.substack.com/p/the-power-of-a-mirror) _2026-05-12 · Daphne Merian_ 10 beginner-friendly scenes that you (or your sub) won't be able to look away from