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Trigger Warning: meanie-face TERF being mean, violence, hatred, angry “trans” people, and unnecessary curses, as always.
This is a media heavy post with many photos and videos, so it won’t make for the best “listening essay”.
Contents:
Introduction and Inspiration
Protesting Our Very Lives
Violence Makes You Look Cool
M is for Meltdown
To the Assholes Who Do This to Women
They are Obsessed with Us
I was working on an essay about trans-identified boys “going stealth” and excelling in high school level sports for next week when London Pride happened. Suddenly, my Twitter feed was flooded with photos and videos of aggressive behavior undertaken by transphiles and TERF haters all over London. There was so much drama that I couldn’t help but be inspired to change topics. As a result, that essay was tossed aside in favor of the “kindness” I’d love to share with you today.
Thank you to Aja the Empress for her hard work and for access to the media she’s made available. This material is incredibly important evidence of the hate and violence directed towards gender critical women that is constantly overlooked or outright denied by individuals and the media alike.
Get ready to see more unabashed hatred and outright cruelty from “the good side” packed with “kind” folks. It's truly touching. (Have some tissues handy.)
Trans-identified folks (mostly men) and their allies go on and on about the “cruel bigotry” displayed by the gender critical and make fools of themselves in the process:
To crochet (not knit1) a hat for a mailbox is “an unacceptable act of intimidation” whilst protest signs threatening to piss on and decapitate TERFs are meaningful and in fact, helpfully cathartic expression for poor trans-identified men beaten down by the transphobic world that envelopes them.
Check out this casual death threat at London Pride from an absolute coward. If you're going to tell someone they should or will die, at least have the decency to look them in the eye.
These fools cry, “TERFs don’t want us to exist!” while protesting our very right to have a head attached to our neck.
The hyperbolic double standard is embarrassing to witness.
The truth is that trans-identified men and their allies need these lies. If the gender critical aren't the epitome of evil, trans behavior suddenly looks a lot like the bullying, harassment, and outright violence that it is. To be clear, I don't mean “misgendering is violence” sort of bullshit “violence”. We're talking death and rape threats, punches to the face, and broken bones.
Check out this dude punching a 70 year old woman in the face during a protest. This is transgenderism. This is what they think of women.
London Pride 2026
New York 2022
Just kidding. You look like a bunch of straight up evil overgrown children who could not form an independent thought to save their lives and those of all trans people “being genocided” right now.
No…
You look like a bunch of mentally unstable and highly self-righteous misogynistic assholes who are somehow utterly incapable of observing and analyzing their own behavior.
No…
You look like a bunch of confused losers who will hopefully mature enough at some point to feel regret and maybe even a touch of guilt for the hatred you're spreading. To be crystal clear: you are the bad guys.
In fairy tales, morality is black and white. In the real world of grays, the “bad guys” often don't know they're the bad guys and believe they are doing “the right thing”. That self-assured overconfidence is just one excellent way to manufacture evil, and that's exactly the trap that trans-identified men and their allies fall into.
They seem to believe that the “bad guys” of history performed gleefully sadistic acts while simultaneously twirling their mustaches - completely aware of and indifferent to the evil inherent in their behavior. This childishly simplistic understanding of good and bad lends them an unearned confidence about the morality of their actions. They know they are “the good guys”. In this confidence lies not only their indifference, but their absolute cruelty as it justifies all manner of antisocial behavior.
Conversely, gender critical women don’t form weird-ass baseball bat wielding marching troupes for parades in order to threaten the oppressed whose rights are being actively stripped. In fact, they really do not make a habit of threatening trans-identified people at all. It’s almost like so-called “trans women” retain their male propensity for violence, even after growing their hair out and smearing on some lipstick.
Wow, I have a lot of photos of trans-identified and queer baseball bats! I assume that's why they've been painted thusly - it's their way of sharing the basic information about who they like to fuck as mute lengths of lumber.
But how do they express their discriminatory “genital preference” or share their pronouns? Notches in the handle, perhaps.
Part of the problem with violence is that once enacted, you cannot take it back. You can apologize and be forgiven for all manner of unpleasant words exchanged but it's difficult to un-break a nose or unbash someone's head.
Never underestimate GAMP passion for “lady dick”.
Even if no blows are exchanged, frightening women into silence isn't something to be proud of. And frightening is the correct word. As women, we are nearly always at a physical disadvantage if violence does break out and therefore, the risk is much greater for us than it is for men, no matter who or what they've convinced themselves they happen to be.
These man-bullies and those supporting them often cover their faces as if they are the ones at risk while most gender critical protestors do not. This is concerning to me because it signals a potential desire to enact violence. It would be effortless to punch a woman in the face (or worse) and anonymously slip back into the crowd. Basically, it gives you the option for violence enacted on a whim, if you so desire such a thing.
The gender critical generally do not cover their faces because they want to show that they are not afraid, but they also don't feel a need to do it because they have no plans to behave in such a manner that anonymity is necessary.
This is just embarrassing. This sort of loss of emotional control worries me. It's one step away from swinging a fist (or a candy colored baseball bat).
There are countless examples of trans-identified balls of rage experiencing what appears to be a complete and utter loss of emotional control in such a way that violence could easily ignite. It’s one thing to get really upset or even enraged, but it is something else to have a conniption fit that causes all but a complete loss of control. Basically, a lot of these guys need some therapy - like heavy duty therapy - to fix their shit. They are a danger to themselves and others.
It would be dishonest of me to pretend that I don't know what it is like to absolutely lose my shit. I never knew the rage I was capable of until C-PTSD, but boy, did it teach me a thing or two. I had never lived my life straddling the precipice of functioning and flipping out in the way I did after my abusive relationship. I wanted so desperately to just be okay, and even kind despite the rage bubbling under the surface. It felt hopeless for years.
I understand all too well that behind anger lies pain and fear and that despite how we treat one another online, we all struggle with moments of intense feelings. I know for certain that trauma can gift its owner with triggers that produce an ugly display of emotion.
And no, I don't take satisfaction from the fact that these people are suffering. Their volatility and vitriol indicates that they are sincerely hurting, and despite the evil that I'm composed of as not only a feminist but a TERFy-ass one, I don't want to see them in that pain.
HOWEVER
You are responsible for your own behavior. If you struggle with anger or complete emotional meltdowns, maybe don't force yourself into a volatile situation that is likely to trigger you. You are not only neglecting your own needs, but you are putting those around you in danger. At the very least, you might scare the fuck out of some of them and that's not exactly a cool thing to do.
You cannot and will not stop us. In fact, every time you show your true colors by way of assault, you strengthen the resolve many women have to end this gender ideology bullshit.
Violent threats are for the uncreative and morally bereft. What's more, they don't create any meaningful change. They prevent productive dialogue and silence timid voices. They are the mark of a weak person unwilling or unable to form arguments in defense of their beliefs.
I embrace the word “transphobe” because I will be branded as such no matter how many spineless caveats I sprinkle throughout my writing. I'd rather own it than let it cause me to become discouraged.
Do not, however, think for a moment that I am afraid of you.
I may experience moments of fear but I refuse to let it silence me. I will not let your aggression dissuade me. Unfortunately for you, our numbers are growing as your absolute disrespect for women brings them to a breaking point.
We will not stoop to your level. We will not focus our attention on protesting against you, but on women's rights. Our protests are not, and will never be, about you.
The honest truth (and I'm sorry to break it to you) is that hating on you is a waste of time and energy needed to enact real political change. The obsession you appear to have for us is not mutual.
It can be difficult to get a realistic idea of the protest sign and slogan chanting demographics at Pride if you aren't there yourself, so please keep that in mind when I point out that for many trans-identified folks, Pride is a celebration of their hatred for the gender critical.
There are countless signs disparaging us - from cute video game references to downright hateful and threatening messages. They chant nasty sayings about us while attempting to drown out our voices.
What then happens is that instead of celebrating progress and the LGB community, these spite mongers dedicate their day to hate. (That is, if they aren't too busy publicly acting out their fetishes.)
Speaking of fetishes, they are driving away LGB folks from their very own communities and away from pride events. I believe the celebration of hate that is becoming Pride will also begin to shift public opinion. Between puppy boys and guillotines, people are bound to get fed up.
As enjoyable as hatefully blaming a group of people for your own issues is, it isn't exactly helping your cause or community. Plus, it makes people feel sad.
Can you imagine if the gender critical set trans pride flags ablaze? I would not be shocked in the least if it sparked an entire fucking riot.
That's just another charming quality of passionate transphiles: they cannot take what they throw at TERFy bitches - Not only do they demand the basic courtesy they feel they are entitled to, they require affirmation, allegiance, and no hurty feelings whatsoever. Unfortunately for them, you can't strut around with violence on your tongue and expect a compassionate response.
They ignore basic human nature in this situation much like they do with any number of other scenarios and demand a level of consideration they have no interest in reciprocating. Despite this, it's hard to blame them too harshly because they've been able to get away with it up until now.
So, boys, it is now time for you to show us some respect in return. How about we start with the elimination of death threats and shouting directly into one's face? Oh, and stop with the punching and the threats of punching if you're feeling up to it. Much appreciated.
Until next time, stay guilty of thought crimes!
MadFem XX
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