Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
Are you ready to take the mystery out of having great relationships and to gain the knowledge you need to step confidently into the next level of your life? Welcome to the Let’s Get Vulnerable podcast where your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, gives you real talk on all things dating, relationships, and sex. Dr. Morgan is a relationship coach, psychologist and creator of the E.S.L relationship method. She brings humor, truth and knowledge to the complex world of dating and relationships. Podcast…
Continuing the birthday series, I'm getting real unfiltered about the seven relationship non-negotiables I didn't even know to ask for at 30 and now, five+ years into my relationship, I will not budge on. Some of these took me years of healing (and a lot of self-abandoning relationships) to even recognize as options. If you've never had someone model healthy conflict, financial transparency, or an…
It's my birthday, y'all and I'm turning 37 with 10 confessions. To kick off my new series, 37 Unfiltered , I'm sharing the 10 things I stopped doing that changed my life — from alcohol to people-pleasing to paying for people's love. This is the real stuff. Not the highlight reel — the years of small decisions that actually moved me toward secure attachment. Inside the Episode: Why I stopped…
Girl, we've made it to part four of The Disorganized Diaries, and this is the episode I've been waiting to give you. We've talked about what disorganized attachment is, where it comes from, and how ADHD and neurodivergence can pour gasoline on the fire. Today we're finally talking about the way out. And I need you to hear this: knowing something logically does not turn off the internal alarm…
You're not "too much" and you're not broken — your nervous system just learned to survive in chaos, and now it's time to teach it something new. Y'all, this one is personal. Disorganized attachment (aka fearful avoidant) is the attachment style I lived in for a huge chunk of my life before I did the work to become securely attached and it's also the one that gets talked about the least. In this…
If the person you were supposed to run to for safety was also the person who scared you, your nervous system learned a lesson that's still running your relationships today. Girl, this one goes deep. In part two of the Disorganized Diaries series, I'm taking you back to the origin, where disorganized attachment actually comes from, and why it's the attachment style I lived in for almost three…
You're not broken, and you're not "too much." You're just fluent in two survival strategies that never got the chance to work. Girl, this episode kicks off a brand new series I'm calling The Disorganized Diaries, and I am so excited (and honestly a little nervous) to go here with y'all. If you've ever felt like you crave closeness one minute and feel suffocated by it the next... if you've ever…
Y'all, I need you to hear this today: the belief that "it's too late for me" is not a fact, it's a thought you've been watering for years, and today we're ripping it out at the root. In this episode I'm walking you through the exact belief systems that keep so many of you stuck in relationships that go nowhere, the scarcity stories, the "I'm too broken," the "the good ones are gone", and I'm…
Y'all, I've worked with thousands of women at this point, and I am telling you, there is a pattern. A real, predictable pattern that shows up right before a woman walks into the healthiest, most secure relationship of her life. In this episode I'm sharing my client Megan's story (name changed, story so real), a high-functioning executive who left an abusive marriage, did the deep work, and is now…
Y'all, have you ever stopped to think about the fact that you are literally teaching people how to treat you every single day? In this episode, part of our High Self-Worth Summer series, I'm getting into one of the most requested topics I get: boundaries. But before we go there, I want to talk about something that doesn't get enough airtime, which is standard. Because here's the thing, your…
Girl, if you've ever beaten yourself up for "failing" at a habit, the journaling you couldn't stick with, the boundary you keep caving on, the morning routine that lasted exactly three days, this episode is for you. In part of our High Self-Worth Summer series, Dr. Morgan breaks down why habits don't fail because of willpower or discipline. They fail because your nervous system is still running…