Why is it so hard to be nice to ourselves sometimes?

Happy weekend!

This past week started off so strong - I was feeling good, Charlie was rocking the transition to 1 nap, we got some sunshine… and then I woke up on Thursday feeling really run down. I majorly struggled to get dressed because it was one of those days when it was chilly in the morning and warm in the afternoon, my favorite things were dirty, and I outgrew my go-to pair of drawstring jeans 😭

That snowballed into feeling really big, feeling like I don’t know how to dress or shop for myself anymore, and then feeling like a failure at my job because this post and this post didn’t do well even though I was really excited about them. It was one of those days when Adam had to say “Can you stop being so mean to my wife?”

Turns out, I really needed a little self care. Yesterday was SO much better even after Charlie woke up super early because I had some me time. An early chiropractor appointment that not only made me feel better in my body, but also reminded me how lucky I am to have a healthy bump, you know?

Anyway, I’m sharing because it’s so easy to get into a cycle of saying mean things to/about yourself - whether you’re pregnant or not! It’s something I’ve been working on for most of my life. So if you start putting yourself down a lot, take a beat.

Recognize what you’re doing and think about how you’d talk to a friend instead. What would you say to them? How would you encourage them? Now say those nice things to yourself ❤️

What I Can’t Get Enough Of: My new robe! I’ve had a short Lake robe for years now but it’s SO short with my bump right now and I knew that I’d want more coverage when I’m postpartum too. So my mom got me their longer one for Mother’s Day and it’s perfect. Their pima cotton is so soft but also really breathable for warmer weather, and their stuff washes so beautifully. I love love love it.

What I’ve Purchased Recently: The big Little Sleepies sale is happening now, and I stocked up! They rarely have sales and these markdowns are up to 65% off which is huge. Especially because, out of all of the pajama brands we’ve tried, these are by far the best. The fabric is so soft, they last for wayyy longer than the tag says, and they hold up so well that ALL of Charlie’s old LS pjs are being passed down to baby 2.

What We’re Watching: Ok who else is watching Summer House and WHAT DO WE THINK?! I have been very committed to my stance that I don’t think Amanda and West were involved last summer. My theory has been that Amanda started to develop feelings for him because he’s been so protective and supportive and flirty with her, but nothing actually happened until this winter. I just can’t wrap my head around a full blown affair all summer… but then the way they hugged in that last episode??! I mean?!!? I’m starting to doubt myself!

What’s In My Cart: After ordering a few big t-shirt/shorts sets from Amazon that didn’t work on me (I think it’s better for taller gals!), I think I might splurge on something from Beyond Yoga. Their fabrics never disappoint and I even found some good styles on sale. I just have to figure out if I want to get regular or maternity shorts though… it feels silly with such little time left, but it’s also kind of nice to have the extra room when you’re freshly postpartum too…

What I’m Cooking: Charlie’s been more into berries than bananas recently so I’ve been making these pancakes every time our bananas start to brown. I love that they only require one bowl and a few ingredients, they don’t take long to make, and Charlie LOVES them.

What I’m Reading: Please forgive me that I’m currently the world’s slowest reader, but yes, I’m still reading Yesteryear and yes, I’m still enjoying it. I just get sleepy too fast once I’m in bed! 🤣

A few more things:

Our Nanit for baby 2 arrived and I am SO EXCITED for the touchscreen!! And we can make it a split screen so we can see both boys at the same time. Eeee!!

My beloved Chicago tote now comes in a smaller size - and they launched more cities too! Seriously one of the best gifts ever. So adorable and incredibly useful.

We’ve had our outdoor furniture for 5 years now and their MDW sale started early! Their furniture is definitely an investment, but it’s so well made and we LOVE the built in cushion covers so we can protect it so quickly instead of lugging cushions around. So nice.

Gap is doing some really great things for boy moms this season. I have so many adorable pieces in my cart that I’m having trouble narrowing it down. HELP.

If I wasn’t pregnant, I would have already purchased this skort. HOW CUTE? And it’s on sale!