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Intergenerational relational complexity is my enchantment, loyally backed up by socio-bio-economic determinants, and chartreuse and magenta geo-political outrages. Jump in!

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Good people do good things. The Mamdani effect. Childhood trauma - how it shows up. Ways to let it out.

Mamdani: an unusual politician who gets where he is, gets what's going on and gets good things done. He remains joyful. He responds fully and authentically to questions. His team is representative.

Searching for meaning in remembrance. Never again has never been more dead in the water. ANZAC Day was once attached at its side. Has it slid away from never again, and what would that signify ?

In Aotearoa-New Zealand a multitude of opinions and emotions adhere to ANZAC Day. In my 'boomer' childhood in a small town it stood with Christmas Day and the A & P Show as big cultural events.

Melania's appalling in so many ways, but quit the misogynist shaming

She's unpleasant, cold, probably a fascist, venal and mendacious, a liar and grifter - that's a lot - but think a moment...

Autumn feels, chocolate eggs, spiced buns, and a reminder that torture always was and always will be evil. And an antidote to the way the world is: Bill Nighy's pod, ill-advised.

In the 50s Easter was second to Christmas among cultural festivals in my house. Chocolate covered marshmallow egg eating rituals, hovering around the oven for the hot cross buns and no religion, too.

Coaching cart and therapy horse. How does that work?

Clear old patterns, relational issues and manage anxieties first to optimise benefits of coaching. Find out what's holding you back, then develop goals out of renewed self awareness and confidence.

Your trauma is real. Your survival strategies have kept you safe-ish. Is that all? Tich Nhat Hanh said it best 'the way out is in'. Dare to go there. You're worth it.

Make yourself a brew, silence your phone, and Zoom in with me for 15 minutes of focus on your 'stuff'. Don't put it off any longer. You've got this.

The sublimation of the real story - the children and women who are the victims/survivors, AND the ones who didn’t make it. This is the story, refracted into a million parts by pretty words...

...analytical words, apologetic words, words of denial and buck passing -

The pedophilia-elite: the ugly criminal child of the incestuous lovers, Capitalism and Patriarchy/misogyny, endlessly anointed by entitled sycophantic wannabes in their jet-set lairs.

We know it's not the only stinking layer of humanity pedophilia thrives in, but this deluded strand thought they were untouchable. Their chief inveigler drew them in, used them, documented them, &...

From Whangamomona Aotearoa-New Zealand: last call to Sunday 18 January workshop and constellation circle

It's on in hours that suit many time zones: 2000-2300 hours New Zealand time. All welcome. Secure your place now! Book on my website. Choose Substack payment option for 20% discount.

Ghosts haunt us. Ancestors walk beside us. Bruce Springsteen and Barack Obama talk about their fathers. My jury service. And some tea from Maya Angelou

They had each ultimately resolved their relationships with their fathers. Mine had recently died, and that episode of Renegade: Born in the USA hit home.