unsolicited opinions and thoughts i would send my friends in a voice memo. ...
many of you have read through the many different seasons of my life. you read when i was heartbroken, when i navigated identity change, when political injustices were simply too much to just sit back and do nothing, but in the current season of my life i am just,,,existing. i work, come home, and watch love island. not in a depressing, bed rotting way, but in a relaxing state. i don't want to be a…
[personal] if you're anything like me, you've probably navigated most of your adolescence and early adulthood alone. maybe you didn't have a good family life, or due to unforeseen circumstances lost your community. or maybe, much like myself, you are the first generation in a new country. most of my life i had never given much thought to my personal circumstances, the root cause of anxiety late at…
‘no soy ni de aquí, ni de allá’ this expression has been the bane of most 1st generation kids living in the US. feeing shame or guilt of not feeling accepted nor welcomed in either side of the border. proud michigander, when i die, bury me under the summer michigan sun in an open field surrounded by lillies. soy de aquí, y de allá.
for the last seven years, the epstein files have been the center of topic in politics, pop culture, and of course meme cringe culture. as more and more people become connected online, and more and more unsolicited opinions are shared I think there comes a point where we lose urgency or even care of what things are anymore. I say all of this because with the release of the files, there is a huge…
Not to long ago in the US, there was a horrifying case of a young family that was murdered by men who pretended to be UPS workers. The home surveillance footage showed the break-in, the couple and oldest son being shot, and we also witnessed the young toddlers left defenseless. It was circulating on my tiktok feed, as well as many other people sharing their thoughts over what had happened. However…
i've always been an advocate of being vulnerable. what is life worth living for if not to be witnessed and seen in our most vulnerable and intimate ways? how do we as humans prove our humanity if not through love? well apparently it's a lot easier said than done because when i started this blog, i was experiencing what i thought was the biggest heartbreak EVER! however, as we near the end of the…
i've been reading a lot of everyones blog posts lately- one of my favorite posts to read is either the thingds they will continue to do in 20226 or their predictions for 2026. a lot of people have been writing about going analog. and a lot of nerdy/geeky computer stuff like linux and code that i dont understand but enjoy reading bc i love supporting peoples passions. it made me think, why do i…
Sometimes, all that we really need is to bet on ourselves. But what happens when that fuel runs out and self-doubt creeps in?
"A little time is all that i get thats all we need because its all we can take" i think there comes a time when we both have to admit it simply was never in the cards for us. not because the timing wasnt right, not because of some bullshit excuse, but simply because neither of us liked each other enough to make it last. this is the last time i waste my precious writing on you. adios.
when was the last time you prayed? me personally, over 10 years ago.