I was 20-something and stupid.
Not stupid because I couldn’t do the work. Stupid because I didn’t realize I was being used.
I’d been working at Burger King since I was 15. Started as a crew member. Worked my way up through every position in the restaurant. Cashier. Cook. Shift lead. Assistant manager. Manager.
By the time I was in my early 20s, I knew how to run a Burger King from top to bottom. Every system. Every process. Every report. Every problem that could go wrong and how to fix it.
I was good at it. Really good.
So when my boss decided to open a new location, he tapped me to do it.
Here’s what that actually meant:
I set up everything for the franchise.
Marketing. I designed the local campaigns, placed the ads, figured out how to get people in the door on opening day.
Hiring. I interviewed and hired 30 employees. Thirty. From scratch. I placed the ads, screened applications, conducted interviews, made offers.
Training. I trained every single one of them. How to work the grill. How to run the register. How to handle angry customers. How to close the store at night without getting robbed.
Equipment. I ordered everything. Made sure it showed up. Made sure it worked. Made sure we had backups when things broke.
Systems. I built the scheduling system. The inventory system. The food cost tracking. The labor management. Everything that makes a restaurant actually run instead of just existing.
Opening day. I was there at 4am making sure everything was ready. I was there until midnight making sure we didn’t collapse under the rush.
And after we opened? I ran the store.
Schedules. Food cost. Labor cost. End of day reports. End of month reconciliation. Ordering. Training. Firing people who didn’t work out. Hiring their replacements.
Everything.
I made sure the money flowed in and out of a million-dollar store without a single mistake.
I was the manager in every way that mattered.
Except one.
My boss never announced I was the store manager.
He never gave me the title. He never gave me the authority. And he sure as hell never gave me the pay.
On paper, the assistant manager was the manager. She had the title. She had the authority. She got the manager pay.
I had nothing.
She acted like she ran the store because technically, she did. At least according to my boss and his lackeys. I had no real authority to discipline employees, approve time off, make hiring decisions, or override her when she made terrible calls.
I was lucky the crew saw me as the actual manager. Because if they hadn’t, my job would have been impossible.
They came to me with problems. They asked me for schedule changes. They looked to me when things went wrong.
Because they could tell who was actually running the store. And it wasn’t her.
But I had no power. No title. No recognition.
Just the work.
I was on salary.
That sounds good when you’re 20-something and someone offers you a salaried position. It sounds professional. Important. Like you’ve made it.
Here’s what it actually meant:
I worked 70-hour weeks. Sometimes more.
No overtime. No extra pay. Just the same salary whether I worked 40 hours or 80.
And my salary? Barely above what I would have made working 40 hours at minimum wage.
Let me do the math for you.
Let’s say minimum wage was $5.15/hour. That’s what it was in the late 90s when this happened.
At 40 hours a week, that’s $206/week or about $10,700/year.
My salary was maybe $20,000/year. Maybe.
Which sounds better. Until you realize I was working 70-hour weeks.
$20,000 divided by 70 hours a week, 52 weeks a year = about $5.50/hour.
I was making $5.50/hour to run a million-dollar restaurant.
Opening it. Managing it. Hiring and training 30 people. Handling food cost, labor cost, inventory, scheduling, everything.
For $5.50/hour.
A crew member flipping burgers was almost making more per hour than I was.
Because I was salaried. And young. And stupid enough not to realize I was being robbed.
You’re probably wondering why I didn’t just leave.
Here’s the thing about being young and poor and not having a degree:
You don’t think you have options.
I’d been working at Burger King since I was 15. It’s all I knew. I was good at it. And my boss kept telling me I was doing great, that this was a huge opportunity, that if I just kept proving myself, good things would happen.
I believed him.
I thought if I just worked hard enough, eventually they’d make it official. Give me the title. Give me the pay. Recognize what I was doing.
I thought competence would be rewarded.
I was wrong.
The assistant manager — the one with the actual title and the actual pay — hated me.
And I get why.
She knew I was doing the manager work. She knew the crew came to me instead of her. She knew I opened the store and she was just filling a spot on the org chart.
But instead of being pissed at our boss for putting us in that situation, she was pissed at me.
She undermined me constantly. Overrode my decisions when she could. Made snide comments to the crew about how I “thought I was in charge.”
And I couldn’t do anything about it. Because she had the title and I didn’t.
I’d fix a problem. She’d undo it. I’d train someone the right way. She’d tell them to do it differently. I’d create a schedule that actually worked. She’d change it to prove she could.
It was exhausting.
I was working 70 hours a week managing a store while fighting with someone who was supposed to be on my team but saw me as a threat.
I don’t remember exactly when it hit me that I was being used.
It wasn’t one big moment. It was a slow realization that built over months.
I’d be standing in the restaurant at 11pm closing down, exhausted, and I’d think about the crew members who’d clocked out at 8pm and gone home.
They were almost making more per hour than I was.
I’d be doing end-of-month reports, tracking every dollar in and out, making sure we hit our targets, and I’d think about my paycheck.
It didn’t match the work.
I’d be training a new hire, teaching them everything I knew, and I’d think about how I’d learned all of this without anyone paying me to do it.
I’d given Burger King years of my life. And they’d given me just enough money to keep me from quitting.
Eventually, even a dumb kid figures it out.
I don’t remember if I gave two weeks notice or just walked out. Probably two weeks because I was young and didn’t want to burn bridges.
But I left.
I got a job as a delivery driver at a rent-to-own furniture store. You know the story from there if you read yesterday’s post. I worked my way up from delivery driver to store manager in a year.
Same pattern. Different industry.
Always the guy who could fix problems and run operations.
Never the guy who got paid what he was worth until I forced them to.
Here’s what I wish someone had told me when I was 20-something running that Burger King:
Being good at your job doesn’t mean you’ll be paid fairly for it.
In fact, being good at your job often means you’ll be exploited longer. Because you’re valuable enough to keep around but naive enough not to demand what you’re worth.
Working harder than everyone else doesn’t mean you’ll be recognized for it.
It just means they’ll keep piling more work on you because they know you’ll do it. You become the person they can rely on to pick up the slack. Which sounds like a compliment until you realize it’s not.
Doing manager-level work doesn’t mean you’ll get manager pay.
They’ll tell you it’s a great opportunity. They’ll tell you you’re being groomed for bigger things. They’ll tell you to keep proving yourself.
What they mean is: we’re getting manager-level work for non-manager pay and we’re going to keep doing it as long as you let us.
Loyalty doesn’t pay.
I was loyal to Burger King. I’d worked there since I was 15. I knew the systems. I knew the people. I bled Burger King.
And they paid me $5.50/hour to run a million-dollar store.
Loyalty is a one-way street in corporate America. You’re loyal to them. They’re loyal to their bottom line.
Looking back now, I can see the pattern that defined my entire working life.
I was always the competent one. The one who could figure things out. The one who stepped up when things went wrong.
Burger King. The furniture rental store. Every job I had.
I thought competence would be rewarded. I thought working hard would lead to recognition and fair pay.
Instead, competence just meant I got used longer. Because competent people are valuable. And valuable people can be exploited if they don’t know their worth.
It took me decades to figure out that the system doesn’t reward competence. It exploits it.
And the only way to stop being exploited is to stop participating in systems that don’t value you.
If I could go back and talk to that 20-something kid standing in a Burger King at 11pm doing end-of-month reports for $5.50/hour, here’s what I’d tell him:
Leave. Now.
Not in a few months. Not after you prove yourself one more time. Not after they finally recognize what you’re doing.
Now.
They know what you’re doing. They know you’re running the store. They know you’re doing manager work.
They’re not going to pay you for it. They’re going to keep extracting as much work as they can for as little money as possible.
You’re worth more than this.
You opened a store from scratch. You hired and trained 30 people. You’re managing food cost, labor cost, inventory, scheduling, everything.
You’re not a dumb kid. You’re a competent manager being paid like a crew member because you don’t know any better.
Now you know.
Don’t wait for them to do the right thing.
They won’t. They never do. Not unless you force them to.
Ask for the title and the pay. And when they say no, leave.
Because staying just teaches them they can keep using you.
I carried that Burger King lesson through every job I had after.
When the furniture rental store tried to use me, I left.
When the job market rejected me 850 times, I stopped begging for jobs that wouldn’t pay me what I was worth anyway.
When I started building The Unfireables, I built it on the principle that competent, experienced people deserve to be paid fairly for their work. Not exploited. Not used. Not told to “prove themselves” while doing work they’re already qualified for.
The system doesn’t reward competence. It exploits it.
And the only way to stop being exploited is to build outside the system.
That’s what I’m doing now. That’s what The Unfireables is about.
Not because I’m bitter about Burger King. I’m not. I learned a valuable lesson there.
But because millions of competent, experienced workers are being told they’re too old, too expensive, too experienced: when the real problem is they’re too valuable to be paid what they’re worth in a system designed to extract everything and pay nothing.
If you’ve ever worked 70-hour weeks for barely above minimum wage while doing manager-level work, you know exactly what I’m talking about.
If you’ve ever been told “we can’t give you the title but we need you to do the job,” you’ve lived this.
If you’ve ever realized you were being exploited and left, you made the right call.
You were never the problem.
The system that extracts competence without paying for it is the problem.
And the solution isn’t to keep participating in that system hoping it’ll change.
The solution is to build something better. Outside the system. Where competence is actually valued instead of exploited.
That’s what we’re building.
Join us.
— Jason
Ran a million-dollar Burger King for $5.50/hour because I was young and didn’t know better. Now I know. And I’m teaching others to stop waiting for systems to value them and start building income they control. Join Over 40 and Unemployed — free community for people the job market exploited who are done asking for permission.
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