You Were Born to Be Orgasmic

“You were born to be wild.” — Steppenwolf

I grew up in a Christian household where the commonly accepted belief was that any mention of sexuality was forbidden. Everyone at the dinner table started squirming in their seats the moment the word ‘sex’ was spoken. It felt like we were committing a sin just by entertaining the mere idea of it.

So as a teenager, of course, I was curious and wanted to explore this mysterious energy everyone seemed so afraid to talk about. I grew up believing that all sexual activity was dirty, unsacred, wrong, and never, ever to be discussed. And especially if Grandma was around… that could be crazy dangerous.

It took me decades of unraveling the tension, fear and excitement around what sex was before I could realize that sexual energy was something deeply sacred.

I ascended into the spiritual path of Tantra, which at its ancient core has really nothing to do with sex, yet more about merging with God. Yet, when they spoke about two bodies merging into one radiant aliveness, with the raw electricity of God moving through our flesh, something deeply sacred awoke inside my being.

I realized that every human being was born with a divine potentiality that completely shattered my understanding of orgasm. I always heard that orgasm was simply one explosive climax that a man reached before collapsing into a deep slumber afterward.

Then, I began understanding how a man could experience rolling, full-body waves of orgasmic energy without ejaculating, allowing that current to continue moving through the body for several hours, building up to a multi-orgasmic, never-ending climax.

This was something completely new to me, beyond anything I had ever understood about sexuality, and I really wanted to experience it inside myself.

So I went on a desperate secret search to learn how to do this. I knew I needed to find the right woman with this ancient knowledge and experience who could teach me. Something inside me knew there was an entire universe of higher pleasure and expanded consciousness waiting to be discovered.

I told myself I was willing to practice with any woman who came into my life and was genuinely devoted to the Tantric path. What’s interesting is that I didn’t find just one woman, but many Tantrikas who were equally devoted to exploring this path and needed a partner for their own journey.

And for the next five years, this became the one thing that mattered most to me: mastering the multi-orgasmic experience and discovering what it takes to reach what I now call the “Cosmic Orgasm”. I’ve included my full story, including all the juicy details, tantric techniques, ancient practices, and multi-orgasmic secrets I discovered along the way in my book, Tantric Mastery.

“The soul should always stand ajar, ready to welcome the ecstatic experience.” — Emily Dickinson

I’m a firm believer that God does not make mistakes. We were not born simply to drag ourselves through life, enduring one struggle after another until it’s over. The orgasmic energy available inside our bodies is not an accident. We were born with this natural gift that can catapult our consciousness into the highest dimensions of the universe.

Accessing our highest sexuality and sensuality is a door to the most expanded states of consciousness that no drug or medicine can replicate. I think this is because God wanted everyone to have an instant inner avenue to bliss that they can access any time.

There are sooo many learned judgments that have created bodily tension around welcoming pleasure. Ironically, pleasure is one of the most natural languages of the human body, yet we’ve been conditioned to distrust it, suppress it, feel guilty about it, or believe we must somehow earn it.

Pleasure is not frivolous. It is not something “extra” that we are allowed to experience only after all the work is finished, the bills are paid, the children are asleep, and every task has been crossed off the list.

Pleasure is our natural birthright. Yet we must recognize that we are living in a world that, for generations, has taught people to deny their animal nature, and then repress, shame, and reject this incredibly natural part of being human. Some of our deepest healing happens by simply allowing our body to discover that it is safe to soften, open, feel, and enjoy receiving pleasure again.

“The body is the temple of the soul.” — B.K.S. Iyengar

I find that most human beings walk around thinking their sexuality is normal, yet are deeply unaware of how repressed they actually are when it comes to receiving pleasure. It’s only when they are called to attend a tantric festival in Europe or a secret polyamorous play party that they realize how their body starts to tremble and either wants to dive head first into the center of the room naked or secretly wants to run for the door.

This unconscious habit of repressing sexual energy doesn’t mean that our pleasure centers are broken. They have simply been shamed and trained to survive on a few breadcrumbs of sensation. I used to believe that a male ejaculatory orgasm was the highest peak any man could achieve and was the great goal of sexual intercourse. Now I understand that compared to what the multi-orgasmic body is truly capable of experiencing, it’s about as satisfying as a good sneeze.

I am by no means trying to boast or brag about what I’ve discovered. In fact, it’s just the opposite. I am deeply humbled by it, and even more outraged by how primitive our sex education classes still are in schools and how lost our society has become, turning to pornography and now even AI girlfriends in search of the intimacy, pleasure, and connection we were never taught how to experience.

When our teenagers grow up in a society that have to hide the word S. E. X on their Instagram posts because they know it will be rejected by the anti-sex algorithm, the shame is already assumed. It seems right to hide or guard ourselves from the orgasmic energy which actually wants to pour through us every second.

Yet, the deeper truth, as I have come to understand it, is that behind every heartbeat, every breath, and every pulsation of life is the God Source, which has embedded within our very biology profound levels of divine pleasure. I believe many of the mental and nervous-system struggles we see everywhere today, including anxiety, chronic restlessness, sleep issues, nervous-system fragility, and even some of what gets labeled as ADHD, are all psychosomatic disorders that arise from inside our bodies after spending years suppressing our natural impulses and capacity for pleasure.

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” — Anaïs Nin

To me, this disconnection from the pleasure of being alive is the real plandemic. It has been planted by religious indoctrination and reinforced through generations of shame, repression, fear, overwork, and conditioning. And now our work is to recognize what has happened, turn toward the very life-force we were taught to suppress, and give a wholehearted yes to it.

Once we understand that the fragmentation we experience in our nervous systems can be deeply rooted in the unresolved fear, shame, suppression, and disconnection held within our first two chakras, we can begin to heal it. We simply need to start reconnecting our spiritual essence with our sexual energy, bringing what was divided back into wholeness.

The first step is allowing ourselves to trust that our sexual energy is sacred. It is not separate from our spiritual nature. It is an expression of the same life-force moving through every breath, heartbeat, and cell of our being. As this trust deepens, we can begin to feel safe embodying this sacred relationship with our own sexual energy wherever we are, without needing to suppress it, act it out, or apologize for its existence.

I feel drawn to talking more about the multi-orgasmic subject this year, and would like us all to bring the sex topic into a more reverent level of conversation, reframing sexuality and sensuality as doorways to the Divine. Not because it’s a super ‘hot topic’, but because the darkness needs to be brought fully into the light.

My guidance keeps telling me that 2026 is going to be the final ending year of the Biblical Revelation prediction of the 7-year apocalypse where all the blasphemous secrets are needing to be exposed. I feel this is perhaps the biggest secret that has captured the most people, because it is the most common, most accepted, most overlooked, and has the deepest normal element of shame attached to it.

Honestly, I actually feel nauseous just thinking how accepted it has become to shame someone who speaks openly about their sex life anywhere in the world. Imagine how different our relationships would be if we were taught from childhood to meet our sexuality with the same reverence that we give to love, creativity, and spirituality.

“Your body is precious. It is our vehicle for awakening. Treat it with care.” — Buddha

Yet beneath all my frustration and seriousness about this, there is always this soft welcoming invitation to feel the warmth and softness of your own skin, the tenderness of your heart, and the deliciousness of whatever it is that makes you attracted to someone and truly turned on.

My invitation and homework for you this year is to welcome more pleasure into every cell of your body than you have in your entire life. Why not? You never know when your time is up.

Maybe your deepest mission is to learn how to trust and be open to receive the blessings from some of the opposite sex (or same sex if that’s your preference). Perhaps your soul’s highest purpose is to learn how to enjoy every moment of your life and to taste every life experience deeply, and remember the innocent joy of being alive.

Pleasure is very simple, soft, and sweet. It doesn’t have to be crazy, wild, and uncontained. It can come from the deepest stillness where the spirit meets the body and has nothing to do with the mind.

“Where there is love, there is life.” — Mahatma Gandhi

If you think about every single animal, plant, and species alive in nature, they are all making love as often as possible. Every flower is doing its sexy pollination thing without shame. Every wild dog on the beach is moving with their animal instinct and is not embarrassed by their desire to show it in public.

If you look deep enough, you might even notice the ocean is quite tantric as well, rolling its waves softly onto the shoreline with hypnotic caress and care. Perhaps every single thing on this Earth is making love to itself and humans are the only species who are continuously busy fighting another war.

When I read that more than 645 million human beings are still living with hunger, many without reliable access to nutritious food, I find myself asking: Why the heck is this still happening? There are roughly 3,500 to 4,000 billionaires on this planet today. If they collectively redirected even half of one percent of their enormous wealth toward effective hunger interventions, it could provide more than the estimated annual investment needed to address chronic hunger worldwide.

And what does this have to do with pleasure? Everything.

When human beings become disconnected from the natural pleasure already available within their own bodies, hearts, relationships, and connection with the Divine, we begin searching outside ourselves for something that will finally make us feel enough. More money. More possessions. More power. More status. More stimulation. More, more, more.

Perhaps this is one of the deepest diseases of our civilization.

We have confused accumulation with fulfillment…