How to know if opening up your marriage is the right choice for you

Opening up your marriage is probably the right choice for you if you resonate with at least some of the 8 following sentiments.

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You love your partner so much and want to open up not because your partner is not enough but because you have such expansive capacity to love more widely and deeply.

In fact, your relationship with your partner has been a place where you’ve evolved your relationship with love most extensively, which has deepened your curiosity for love.

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You’re not coming to non-monogamy as the last resort for “fixing all your problems” in your marriage.

Instead, you’re coming to non-monogamy as a portal to having more open conversations to know more about yourself and your partner.

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You have a knowing that the way you engage with non-monogamy is only going to be fruitful for the way you develop relationships and community.

Not because it’s easy but because living out who you are is worth the twists and turns and adventures along the way.

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You know that when you engage with your freedom, the way you show up for the things that you care about (like your productivity, creativity, activism, and connection) happens so organically in ways that felt impossible before.

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You know that dismantling the fascist concept of the nuclear family is not about hating your nuclear family but about building a community where your nuclear family can actually thrive outside capitalistic constraints.

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You understand that feelings are here to facilitate a more intimate connection to yourself.

You understand that uncomfortable feelings are not there to harm you but to inform you.

And that tickles your spirit.

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You know that non-monogamy is not just an escape but an actual form of infrastructure to break down the roots of oppressive systems that want to keep you feeling trapped and ashamed in your body.

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You know that the way you engage with your truth is at the center of deeper connection at every level across individuals, communities, nations, and factions.

Because, without our truth, who are we?

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Dan my husband and I are hosting a fireside on Monday, June 17 at 9pm Eastern to share our journey of opening up our marriage in a way that brings people closer together, starting with our own partnership.

Register here: angela-han.com/dangela