Self-reflections and talks about our experiences with social anxiety, impostor syndrome, and mental health. We discuss resources we find useful to improve our well-being and build resilience. How guests developed skills and learned to cope with challenges to succeed in life, careers, and starting businesses. "There is no growth without failure."
I felt so awkward and out of place going to the gym after a 7 year pause. About this podcast: I was afraid to be myself for years. I pretended to be comfortable in social events, parties, work meetings. But inside I was struggling; afraid of being judged and saying something stupid. Then I read a book called Quiet by Susan Cain. This book changed my life. I am learning and want to share this messy…
This is a rant on things that have been on my mind the last few weeks. This episode was hard to get started. I was nervous and got more comfortable about two thirds into it. Lots of references, books, song links below. Disclosure: This post contains affiliate links and I receive a commission if you visit a link and buy something on my recommendation. This doesn’t cost you any extra, and I only…
I can spend a lot of time by myself and I am completely ok with that. I even crave being by myself. I used to feel guilty for wanting to be alone. I understand myself better now and there's no guilt. I like this article about Solitude vs Isolation: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200307/what-is-solitude About this podcast: I was afraid to be myself for years. I pretended to be…
I have this weird thing I don't understand well. I feel guilty for being sick. My health took a dive the last 2 months. I pushed myself hard to keep working on my business and podcast. Eventually I had to stop to rest and get help. I have a hard time saying what is wrong sometimes I don't even tell my doctor. But this time it was different. I told my doctor everything...I am getting help. I am…
"What makes you different is your power" Jeff I met Jeff and Tommy at the 2018 #OREIA convention in Cincinnati (a real estate investors event) Jeff and I connected because we both relate to having some social anxiety of large crowds and events. This is Jeff's story. Jeff Rabinowitz facebook.com/damntherecession biggerpockets.com/users/pharmerjeff Tommy Desmond tommydesmond.com/blog…
Recorded with different mics so audio sucks. Mentioned headspace.com wtfpod.com/podcast/episode-955-anna-faris About this podcast: I was afraid to be myself for years. I pretended to be comfortable in social events, parties, work meetings. But inside I was struggling; afraid of being judged and saying something stupid. Then I read a book called Quiet by Susan Cain. This book changed my life. I am…
Finding myself and trying to be a good parent is one of my biggest challenges. Sometimes I get it right sometimes I screw up. I am grateful my older kids lived with the worst me and seem to be turning out ok. About this podcast: I was afraid to be myself for years. I pretended to be comfortable in social events, parties, work meetings. But inside I was struggling; afraid of being judged and saying…
Going to events with many people I don't know has never been easy. A few months ago I signed up to go to a Real Estate Investing convention. Here's what happened. About this podcast: I was afraid to be myself for years. I pretended to be comfortable in social events, parties, work meetings. But inside I was struggling; afraid of being judged and saying something stupid. Then I read a book called…
Some years ago my wrists started hurting when I typed on my computer. I ignored the pain like any other Macho man. That was stupid and after a few years of not taking this serious, the pain was horrible and 24/7. I spent years seeing doctors, therapists, surgery and doing alternative medicines searching for a cure. And I didn't know exactly what was wrong!? The pain started in my wrists and after…
I had some misunderstandings about introverts. I thought I was an introvert but really what does that mean? I thought I was stuck! I am not just an introvert its way more complicted. We screw up all the time. I used to be too critical of myself for messing up. If I did something stupid I would criticize myself harshly. Its ok to mess up Thank you AJ and Christian at the Borderline Idealist podcast…