The Inner Confidence Podcast with Robbie Kramer is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, dating, making friends, fitness, wealth hacking, and lifestyle design.
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"Red pill cuck cope."That's the phrase my guest dropped halfway through this conversation and I haven't stopped thinking about it since.A girl doesn't write you back and you go looking for the reason why. And the reason you land on is always something you can't change. She only dates guys over six feet. There's no good women left in this city.It feels like analysis. What you're actually building…
Most men are playing their dating lives like a lottery. They buy a ticket, they wait. And if it doesn't hit, they tell themselves the game is rigged.Smart men play it like poker. And the difference between those two things is the difference between a guy who's been stuck for years and a guy who's actually improving his results every single month.In this episode I break down the 4 concepts every…
Every man is paying for his dating life right now. Most of them just don't know it.I hear this constantly from guys on the fence about investing real time and energy into getting good with women. "I can't afford it." "I don't know if it's worth it."I get the hesitation. But doing nothing isn't free. It just means you're paying a different way and you might be paying a whole lot more.In this…
Have you ever been in a conversation with a girl you like, things were going okay, and then you just ran out of things to say? The words dried up and you're standing there in the mental panic spiral trying to come up with anything to keep it going.Meanwhile some other guy has an endless supply of stories and jokes and he's effortless with it. And you're thinking, how does he just have that on…
She was texting you every day, making plans, laughing at everything you sent. And then, nothing. One word replies. Something shifted and you have no idea what it was. Here's the problem. Almost everything men do at this exact moment makes every possible version of this situation worse. There are really only 2 reasons this actually happens, and one of them nobody wants to say out loud. In this…
Have you ever put in real work - actual approaches, actual reps, real results and then wondered if this is just what it looks like forever? Or maybe you've got a solid social circle, you're around attractive women, and you're still going home alone most weekends. If either sounds familiar, there's a conversation we need to have about the 2 phases of this game. Most guys only ever figure out one.…
Most guys are trying to solve their dating life as an individual problem. Better approaches. Better texts.Better profile. Better conversation. That stuff matters. But there's a ceiling on it that most guys hit and can't explain. Because the guys who actually live the life solved a completely different problem. They built an ecosystem. I just got back from Bogota, Colombia. Five days. Four nights.…
Six feet. Six figures. Six pack. Only 1% of men in the US actually hit all three at the same time. So either 99% of men are completely undateable or something about this whole conversation is being seriously misunderstood. In this episode I break down what the 666 standard actually reveals, why social media made it louder but didn't create it, what women say they want versus what they actually…
If you're in a situationship right now, you put yourself there. Not on purpose. Not because you're a bad guy. But somewhere along the way your actions started writing a contract you never meant to sign. In this episode I break down exactly why this keeps happening, the two completely different situations men find themselves in, and what to actually do about each one without losing leverage or…
The men who built something. Got in shape. Went to therapy.Did the actual work. They're not complaining on Reddit. They're just quietly stepping back and deciding it's not worth it anymore. And here's the part nobody is talking about, they might be right.Or they might be making the worst mistake of their lives. In this episode I break down the two types of men stepping back from dating and why…
Every few months, Leonardo DiCaprio gets photographed with another younger woman and the internet loses its mind. Women call him creepy. Men defend him like he's the last symbol of male freedom. Everyone makes the same jokes. But I don't think anyone is actually talking about Leo. I think they're talking about something much more uncomfortable: attraction, aging, power, freedom, status,…
