Ep. #815 | This one's short and sweet... because today isn't about a lesson. It's about something I built for you. The new Holistic Alpha website is live. And inside the new members area, there are three complete free courses waiting for you: Erection Quality ... the physiology, the practices, and what actually moves the needle Staying Power ... master the 3 Dials and last as long as you choose…
Ep. #814 | There is a core part of how you approach breaking a porn addiction that most guys get exactly wrong... unknowingly keeping themselves hooked, rather than leaving it behind. Discover what this critical switch it, and how it changes everything. Inquiries: contact@holisticalpha.com
Ep. #813 | Many men believe developing real sexual stamina is complex, or maybe even unattainable. On the other hand, some fall into the trap of thinking it's just about doing some kegels. The reality is that there are 3 simple dials - three "buckets" - that all the possible techniques and approaches boil down to. Understand and practice managing these three dials... and you can have the kind of…
Ep. #812 | One of the most critical habits for improving erections, and a simple mental approach to help you get it done. Inquiries: contact@holisticalpha.com Studies Khera M, Bhattacharyya S, Miller LE. (2023). Effect of aerobic exercise on erectile function: Systematic review and meta-analysis of randomized controlled trials. Journal of Sexual Medicine.…
Ep. #811 | Sometimes referred to as the "Coolidge Effect", there is a biological need to have a sense of novelty in our sex life to keep our drive strong. Let's talk about the low vibration approach to this need vs. the high vibration approach - which will lift up your life and deepen your relationship. Inquiries: contact@holisticalpha.com
Ep. #810 | Most men approach masturbation on autopilot. Even guys who've moved into a mindful edging practice often skip the one step that can have a big impact what they actually get out of it: setting an intention. In this episode, I break down two distinct paths your edging practice can take... and why understanding the difference is a game changer. Edge for power , and you build libido,…
Ep. #809 | Ask yourself: what turns you on? Now ask: did you choose those things, or are they just there? For most men, what turns them on feels fixed. Automatic. Just the way it is. It's not. What turns you on is one of the most powerful forces in your life. It shapes the depth of your relationship, the energy you send out into the world, and your power to create and manifest what you actually…
Ep. #808 | I share two recent experiences…switching to left-handed golf after 35 years of playing right-handed, and returning to yoga after a seven-year break (which has now led me into teacher training). Both moves came from the same place: a quiet call from underneath the conditioning. We’re conditioned in countless ways - through what we inherit, through our upbringing, through patterns we’ve…
Ep. #807 | Porn, alcohol, anger, compulsive thought, defensive reaction; different surface expressions, often the same deeper pattern... Something rises, and part of you immediately leans toward giving it action. This episode explores how to interrupt that momentum without force, how to stop feeding what does not serve you, and how small moments of pause gradually reshape self-trust, behavior, and…
Ep. #806 | What if your focus is shaping your sexual energy far more than you realize? In this episode, I break down one of the main levers to mastering your sexual flame: focus. We get into how focus directs energy, why so many men get stuck in a narrow hotspot of arousal, how to begin expanding pleasure into the rest of the body, and why this changes not only control and stamina, but the depth…