
Hi, I’m bisexual
How I figured out I’m queer in a culture that regularly erases queer people like me
Essays exploring the parts of life, work and money we usually keep masked, hidden, closeted or polished in public.
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How I figured out I’m queer in a culture that regularly erases queer people like me

Don’t try to change your habits through brute force or sudden self-control

On late diagnosis and self diagnosis and living a life without knowing who you really are

Plus summer softball, ice cream sundaes, the price of gas and building my travel fund

On loving and living in partnership without making it official

Plus, learning Spanish, overdrafting and a huge boost to my savings account

Welcome the signs of aging that remind you of your good fortune to still be alive

Plus, a diner breakfast, a questionable Amazon purchase, business taxes and more

I’m grateful to be good at what I do, and I’m tired of judging myself for how I make money

A Q&A with Hanna Horvath on deriving pleasure and identity from work and finding financial freedom by defining “enough”