How to find love even if you're the least social human on earth. Join me in learning how to date out of your league and find success...without needing to be a confident extrovert. Wannabe PUAs and Alpha bros, GTFO. This isn't for you. This is a living exploration of how to be honest and still get the woman (or man) you want. And what actually matters if you're looking to establish financial independence. Proven tools from the schools of psychology, counseling, neurology, CBT, IFS/partswork,…
Every relationship starts the same way. And ends the same way. What if that's not a coincidence? In this episode, we cover why your relationships keep falling apart. What hidden habits keep that cycle going. And the very uncomfortable secret to erasing the storms that tear relationships apart.
Being an ethnic minority can come with extra dating challenges - from unfair stereotypes to plain old prejudice. But are those externally imposed hurdles really the key factor holding you back? In this episode... Why my race really WASN'T the issue with my dating struggles. The uncomfortable stereotypes Asian men face (and what I did). How to spot if you're blaming race instead of lacking skills.…
This episode is for anyone still struggling with those stubborn mental blocks to finding the partner they desire and deserve. The 9 mind viruses that made me undatable (and how I cured them) Why you need to stop consuming dating advice. The 5-minute face meditation that removed my anxiety around hot women. How staring at a woman’s photo could save your dating life. Why you secretly believe you…
Candid insights and practical strategies for anyone seeking a fresh perspective on revamping their dating life. Tune in to uncover the secret to a game changing dating reset. The #1 thing I'd do before dating again (hint: most guys don't do this and it's not good) Why social shotgunning is better than Tinder for 80% of men. Why I stopped playing it cool with women The step-by-step way to build…
Where she's actually looking at when she sees you Why you keep getting ghosted How to become 2x more attractive without changing anything about yourself The little known secret that makes men more attractive to single women. The real reason it feels like all the dating advice you're getting contradicts itself How to pick clothes that make you stand out to girls
Not sure you're supposed to be with the person you're dating? Here are some major signs you need to gtfo. Why it's so hard to leave abusive relationships (and what actually qualifies?) Signs your partner is never going to change (even if they keep promising you that they will) Why liars lie, and how to spot them. The no. 1 trait you DO NOT want your partner to have (it can be tricky to spot) The…
This is why you keep getting worse and worse results on that dating app you love/hate. (Hint: it doesn't have shit to do with your rizz) Been awhile, gang. But we're back. In this episode... The real reason why you're still single (and hating it) The sinister design of dating apps, how that makes it harder to find real connection, and how to beat the system. Five ways to instantly improve your…
Thought about just leaving the podcast as it was, but that woulda been wierd. Leaving without saying goodbye. As a special thank you for listening, I thought I'd record a podcast where I taught everything I wish I'd learned the moment I hit 18. Inside... The difference between a steamy vs. platonic date How to stop being so outcome dependent The one thing you must avoid if you don't want dating to…
In this episode: 1. The no. 1 reason you aren't getting better with women. 2. Why most men get stuck settling for less and how to stop the cycle. 3. How to know if you're thinking like a boy vs. thinking like a man. 4. The biggest thing you need to change today if you're still taking rejection personally. 5. Why self compassion is one of the most, if not THE most important skill you can learn on…
In this episode... She wants sex! We talk about how to create conversations and environments that help her have sex with YOU. What to do when sex starts to feel like WORK and STRESS Why your fear of rejection is running the show in the bedroom (in the worst possible way) and how to erase it How to create the kind of juicy emotional intimacy that women crave The ONLY mindset that will consistently…