# Gender Reveal Welcome to Gender Reveal, a t4t podcast that began as a deep dive into what exactly gender... is? Since 2018, the show has evolved into an excuse to chat with a bunch of smart, funny, hot people about everything from anarchism, abolition, and organizing, to parenting, literature, linguistics, kink, drag, film, horror, healthcare, immigration, baseball, wrestling, and decades-old community gossip. (But also, still, gender!) Page: Feed: --- ## [Episode 202: Lynn Loheide](https://gender.libsyn.com/episode-202-lynn-loheide) _2026-08-10_ Ozzy chats with piercer Lynn Loheide (they/them). Topics include: How horny leather queers launched the modern US piercing industry Genuinely surprising ways that a genital piercing can be gender-affirming Using matching nipple rings as thruple wedding bands :) What to know before splitting your tongue(!!!) Plus: the "gay ear," HRT's effects on piercings, and inventing a trans shibboleth? This… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gender/lynn-final.mp3?dest-id=629489) ## [Bonus: Metonymy Press (feat. Eli Tareq El Bechelany-Lynch)](https://gender.libsyn.com/bonus-metonymy-press-feat-eli-tareq-el-bechelany-lynch) _2026-08-03_ In this bonus episode, Tuck chats with poet Eli Tareq El Bechelany-Lynch (they/them) about what's going on over at Metonymy Press. Topics include: Metonymy's role in launching the careers of trans writers Advice for trans people considering their own small press What Metonymy is looking for in its current open submissions How Tuck keeps messing up on dating apps :) :) :) Plus: Teaching Hanif… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gender/eli-final.mp3?dest-id=629489) ## [Bonus: Karmela Padavic-Callaghan](https://gender.libsyn.com/bonus-karmela-padavic-callaghan) _2026-07-27_ Tuck chats with physicist and writer Karmela Padavic-Callaghan (they/them) about science writing, quantum hacking, union organizing, and why quantum physics is sooooo queer. Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear about Tuck being hospitalized in the multiverse, vegan restaurant hot takes, how Tumblr impacted our college experience, and more. Send questions for Karmela via our advice/AMA… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gender/karmela-bonus-final.mp3?dest-id=629489) ## [Episode 201: Julián Delgado Lopera](https://gender.libsyn.com/episode-201-julin-delgado-lopera) _2026-07-13_ Tuck chats with author Julián Delgado Lopera (he/him). Topics include: Why Julián chose to focus on a closeted travesti in his new novel Creating intergenerational trans friendships and navigating inevitable conflict Protesting in Bogotá and navigating Colombian gender bureaucracy Untranslatable Spanglish, transsexual grammar, travesti poetics, and the beautiful transfemme tradition of… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gender/julian-final.mp3?dest-id=629489) ## [Episode 200C: A Bit of Advice from Mckenzee Griffler](https://gender.libsyn.com/episode-200c-a-bit-of-advice-from-mckenzee-griffler) _2026-06-29_ Last chance to save 50% off Gender Reveal patreon subscriptions and Girl Dad Press books with code "PRIDE" (!!!) Tuck tackles more advice questions with BFF of the show Mckenzee Griffler. Topics include why becoming a beautiful woman is like riding a motorcycle, how to handle intrusive questions from other trans people, and how we can support our friends when they make decisions we hate. Listen to… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gender/mckenzee-200-teaser.mp3?dest-id=629489) ## [Episode 200B: Jack Haven](https://gender.libsyn.com/episode-200b-jack-haven) _2026-06-15_ Tuck and Ozzy chat with I Saw the TV Glow actor Jack Haven (they/them). Topics include: Wearing an A/C unit on your head, both literally (in Camp Miasma ) and figuratively (at Cannes and elsewhere) Chasing shame and embarrassment as the most intense and therefore realest emotions Filming an improvised movie guerrilla-style with friends & family Jack's grandmother falling in love with another nun… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gender/jack-final.mp3?dest-id=629489) ## [Episode 200A: Trans Healthcare Q&A with Lola Pellegrino](https://gender.libsyn.com/episode-200a-trans-healthcare-qa-w-lola-pellegrino) _2026-06-08_ Every 100 episodes, we demand that Lola Pellegrino—a nurse practitioner who specializes in gender-affirming care and gynecology, mostly for trans people—answers our medical questions. Topics include: Exciting new developments in PrEP! Will crossfading hormones werewolf a doll? How important is freezing your eggs/sperm prior to HRT? How does testosterone affect menopause? Plus: "Weird/bad vagina… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gender/lola-2026.mp3?dest-id=629489) ## [Bonus: Inaugural Trans Book Draft! (feat. Sabrina Imbler, Calvin Kasulke, & Alma Avalle)](https://gender.libsyn.com/bonus-the-inaugural-trans-book-draft-feat-sabrina-imbler-calvin-kasulke-alma-avalle) _2026-06-01_ Save 50% off Gender Reveal patreon subscriptions and Girl Dad Press books with code "PRIDE" all June! Tuck challenges Sabs (How Far the Light Reaches), Calvin (Several People Are Typing), and Alma (Picnic Magazine) to draft the best bookshelf of trans literature. Along the way, we become cool bus perverts, travel to the Swiss Alps, and discover which recently published books are about Calvin :)… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gender/book-draft-teaser-final.mp3?dest-id=629489) ## [Episode 199: Bobuq Sayed](https://gender.libsyn.com/episode-199-bobuq-sayed) _2026-05-11_ Tuck chats with author and organizer Bobuq Sayed (they/them). Topics include: How Bobuq's novel No God But Us addresses shortcomings in other immigrant lit Writing representation for white trans guys with a savior complex who are bad at poly :) How living in Turkey changed Bobuq's relationship to the pride flag How Writers Against the War on Gaza combats the media ecosystem's rightward drift Plus:… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gender/bobuq-final.mp3?dest-id=629489) ## [Open-source Screen Sharing with Control (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/ICjP8xKhW8xd) _2026-05-11 · **Sponsored**_ WebRTC screen sharing with simultaneous mouse & keyboard control; viewers join in browser. ## [Bonus: Tempest Creation & Tuck's little life](https://gender.libsyn.com/bonus-tempest-creation-tucks-little-life) _2026-05-04_ Tuck teases a very personal recent Gender Conceal episode and a big, exciting upcoming experiment. Then, Ozzy chats with Tempest Creation (she/her) about her short film Birth of the Hive Queen. Topics include how to cast moths for a movie, why Tempest's films all have "hooker brain," and whether trans cinema has a coherent aesthetic beyond being dark and crazy :) :) Listen to the full episode on… [Listen](https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gender/tempest-teaser-final.mp3?dest-id=629489)