It's Time To Unlock Your Desires

How do I tell someone I want them to piss on me?

That’s one of the questions I was asked yesterday on Instagram.

In fact, many of the questions I get asked are in a similar vein. People want to be tied up. People want to be degraded. People want to be humiliated. People want to be stepped on. People want to be told what to do. People want to choke and be choked.

We all have secret desires that fill us with shame at the same time they’re making our blood pound, and it all comes down to the same questions.

How do I tell someone what turns me on? What will they think? Am I weird?

Talking about your kinks and your desires is remarkably challenging. After all, society has conditioned us to think that anything outside of procreative sex is abnormal and shameful. This is why talking about kink can be so challenging, and permitting yourself to explore it can be even more daunting.

Luckily, I found a great resource to help us do just that.

As some of you may know, I’m currently getting my sexuality educator certification through the Sexual Health Alliance, and this week, in my studies, I learned about a really fascinating tool called a “Yes, No, Maybe List.”

The concept is simple. You print out one of these lists of sexual practices and mark yes, no, or maybe depending on how you feel about the practice in question.

For example, if you were into choking, it would look like this

Choking: Yes [ x ] Maybe [ ] No [ ] G/R/B [ G ]

Keep reading to see what G/R/B means 😈

Suddenly, here was a great way to talk about your kinks! But the more I searched, the more I realized that none of these felt particularly gay. I mean, they didn’t mention poppers, edging, gooning, sex at an afters, gym cruising, outdoor cruising, camming, or anything else I’ve written about in the past month.

So, I decided to compile my own unapologetically gay Yes, No, Maybe List that doesn’t exist anywhere else on the internet. In its FIVE pages, it’s got everything including dom/sub dynamics, anal beads, watersports, dirty socks, pits, sex at an airport, and even using words like good boy, cumslut, or faggot during sex. Plus a few things I know you’ll have to look up.

This list is great for long-term couples who want to spice up their sex life, new couples getting to know each other, and even single folks looking to explore a little bit of their own sexuality.

I promise you that just reading the form will turn you on and excited to try out some of these things yourself. I know because that’s what happened to me creating it.

This type of worksheet is a first for me, and I’m so excited for you to use it and will be the first of some more tangible things that you can actually use! And it’s in a cute PDF, so you can print it out and get into it tonight.

Just hit that upgrade button below, fill it out, and you’ll be on your way to unlocking those deep desires you’ve always wondered about.

Ready? Let’s dive in.

A quick note! Gay Buffet is my sole income, and now that I’ve hit 1,000 paid subscribers, my prior sale has ended, but I really want to make sure that my rates are still affordable. To that end, my yearly paid sub price is still heavily discounted for those who need it. I know money is tight all around, and I really hope this helps! When you upgrade to a paid subscription, you’re not just getting helpful sex content; you’re also helping me pay rent, buy groceries, and keep the lights on.

Thank you so much for your support; I truly couldn’t do this without you. -Aidan