A general space for a general Frings.
It was my birthday recently. content warning for domestic violence and all that that can entail and more For the weeks leading up to it, all my mind could think about was: I am about to turn as old as my mother was when she had me. I am also about to turn as old as my mother was when her own mother was shot in the head and killed in broad daylight by her partner. Feels like the first bit is a…
Over on tumblr, Anonymous asked: hi! i've read all your heerim fics recently (new fan of them i know it's late) and i want to ask, have you always interpreted heedo as bi/pan? do you hc yurim as lesbian with comphet? bc i noticed you seem open to the possibility of heedo dating a man, her having a husband etc. also you brought up threesomes with heedo and her husband plus yurim, but not the other…
I have this one very clear memory. It goes like this: It’s 2017, and I’m standing in my first apartment in Poland. (Technically it was my second—but the other one was temporary, more of a hotel than an apartment, and this one was my first proper one—arranged and rented by me, not my employer.) The place was this tiny studio apartment a block away from the Square Market, on the last floor of a…
This post goes something like this: I was really happy yesterday. It feels extraordinarily silly to write about that, but I think it matters. I should've written this yesterday! Whilst feeling the emotions and thinking the thoughts! But alas, I did not. Part of the reason why I didn’t is the same reason why I’ve never been able to keep a journal, no matter how many of those my mother gifted me…
All that journeying has landed us here.