Men discovering their receiving sexual energy (part 1)

As shared before in my post “Gay/straight - can we show each other how it really works”, in the general idea of the people in antiquity, their was no problem with men interacting sexually but being on the receiving side was always seen as inferior - no matter if it was a women or a boy (and a man would not speak about it because it was a shame). In our days, as behaviors have been assigned to groups (see that very post), that rejection was projected to a group: “You faggot!!” meant - you are amongst them who defile themselves with Sodomie - a man receiving.

But as we, as a society, are in a process of fully acknowledging and honoring the female sex, can we also re-integrate the receiving part and take it away from the idea of shame?

By the way this is not only a challenge for straight men, but there are large parts of the gay community where receiving is viewed as negative, worse.

Lately I gave a tantra massage to a straight friend and he noticed: Hm, I really am now in the receiving position, surrendering to what happens. And yes exactly! How can we not integrate this so tremendously important side of sexuality and believe we know all about it?

Now for men, additionally from the possibility of simply going into the receiving energy while for example receiving a massage or while having our dicks beautifully sucked and surrendering to giver in this way, in fact nature has also equipped us with a whole organ as powerful erogenous zone: our anus with our prostate! And just as much as men have socially been taught to reject their receiving role, have they done it with this organ as well: most men just don’t know it or have even build layers of disgust against it (or as strong rejection, as shows the word “ass-fuckers”).

Would you like to get familiar with your “female” sexual energy, your receiving side and integrate it? Let me share ways of doing so in the next post… - stay tuned! Love y’all.