Designing Custom Polyamorous Milestones Beyond the Relationship Escalator
Freedom can be daunting, when you leave a familiar path. Here are some ideas to help you on your journey.
Decolonizing Love
We explore how colonialism shaped relationships, then practice new ways to love.
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Polyamory Book Recommendations
For the curious, beginners and advanced polyamorists.
Why Overprotecting Her From Abusive Poly Men Isn’t Protecting Her
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Kids Aren’t a Hierarchy: How to Parent as an Egalitarian Polyamorist
Why children coming first doesn't mean your romantic relationship dynamics must be in a pecking order.
Relationship Anarchy: Is The Polyamory Community Where Revolutionary Anarchist Politics Went to Die?
When radical politics become a mere lifestyle: polyamory co-opts anarchism, stripping its revolutionary core into individualism.
How to Know What Your Values Are in Polyamory
Before the saxophones start playing.
This is How You Dismantle Couple Privilege
If polyamory is dinner, you are the host who sets the table, not society, and you decide how fairness gets served.
Polyamory Under the Law
From locked hospital doors to radical relationship agreements: A manifesto for the families the colonial state doesn't recognize.
Your 5 Core Needs in a Polyamorous Relationship
Questions every polyamorous person should know about themselves and be able to tell their partners because going with the flow often leads to being neglected.
Before You Open Your Relationship, You Need to Become an Individual Again
Why reading all the polyamory books and creating the agreements isn't enough: The unglamorous, essential work of differentiation.