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Crushing · Dec 28, 2025

To Ghost or Not to Ghost?

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Maija Ariele Fiedelholtz · Crushing

Literally why tf would he kiss u if he’s gonna ghost u like I’m mad asf rn

Doing that kiss when he wasn’t into you or wasn’t gonna text again is insane behavior. I never do a kiss unless I’m excited abt the person and wanna signal that I want a date #2

You may not like it, but his behavior isn’t insane. He’s dating multiple women, and will choose whoever is most appealing to him out of the options available. He wants to maximize the chance that each woman he dates will want to see him again, hence (if the mood is right) initiating a kiss. But the morning after the date he gets a reply from a lady he’s already on the third date with, and he follows up and has a great time with her.

You cannot do or say something wrong to the right person. Boys like that often go on dates for validation, not because they are actually looking for anything. DO NOT TEXT HIM.

It is very disheartening isn’t it? The thing is, it doesn’t mean that we are naive to think a single kiss on the lips cold mean the sta…

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