Everything starts with self-love. Every how-to-live philosophy you want to try is pointless if you haven’t truly understood the importance of self-love. Self-love is when you make loving and caring for yourself your utmost priority. Contrary to what others think, self-love is not selfish it s actually selfless. When you focus on loving your overall Continue Reading The post Self-Love Leads You to…
It s not when everything is working. Or when your business is doing great. Or when you have lots of money. Or when your boss appreciates you. Or when your work is being recognized. Or when your spouse is in a good mood. Or when your children meet your expectations. Or when you re in good health. Continue Reading The post The Hard Times Reveal the Real You, Not the Good Times appeared first on…
Your letter Can t believe it reached me, amid all the busyness (and distractions). I m lost for words; I really don t know what to say. Perhaps I m just grateful to know that you ve been waiting for me. Don t mean to hurt you or make you feel neglected. I mean I m not even sure if I m making Continue Reading The post Flying High (2) appeared first on Craftdeology .
Wow. You ve flown so high. Feels surreal. Can you believe that? In fact, so high I don t see you anymore. With all the good things happening above of course, of course. No I m not complaining. Trust me, I m really happy that you ve finally made it. I really am. You don t want to go down, of Continue Reading The post Flying High appeared first on Craftdeology .
Every time you expect that there s someone (or something) out there who ll save you, you set yourself up for a disappointment. They might come. But they might not. It s hard to know. Because every time you expect you re telling yourself that you can t turn your life around. You re implying that you don t have the power Continue Reading The post The Day You Became The Hero of Your Life appeared…
It s the one truth we can all agree on. And it even becomes truer the more we get older. But despite it being true, most people tend to ignore it: Young adults (or teenagers) prioritize meeting their parents expectations instead of following what they truly love. Adults with their own families and with a demanding Continue Reading The post Time is the Only Thing We Can Never Get Back appeared…
It s great to be optimistic. It makes you try things. But that doesn t mean you re always expecting for good things to happen. Or that someone will save you. It just means that you ll push through whatever it takes. It s either you do it or regret not doing it. Doesn t matter the outcome is. Now that s Continue Reading The post The Real Optimist appeared first on Craftdeology .
No. It s not actually your competitor. Not those people who hate you or envy you. It s the version of you who doubts yourself and thinks negatively. Negative thinking is draining. It kills your hopes and dreams. It closes your mind, locking you in a single perspective. Allow it to consume you, and you become angry, Continue Reading The post Your Most Dangerous Enemy appeared first on Craftdeology…
Every time I read most job descriptions these days, I want to vomit. And the more detailed the job descriptions are, the more it makes me want to vomit. Makes me wonder whether those who wrote those descriptions want to hire a human or a machine. They probably didn t realize it, but they re setting up Continue Reading The post You re Not Meant to Become a Machine appeared first on Craftdeology .
When people say that having problems is normal What they re actually saying is that they ve accepted any kind of problem in their lives both new and old problems. It s true that having problems is normal but only if they re new problems. New problems are OK. They test our capacity to find solutions. They Continue Reading The post Another Problem appeared first on Craftdeology .
The modern world glorifies: Trying everything you want Taking action all the time Looking for a greener pasture Living life to the fullest Keeping your options open But the reality is, life is all about tradeoffs. Saying yes to one thing is saying no to others. Commitment If you re already committed to certain things, that Continue Reading The post More Shots on One Thing appeared first on…
Having a purpose is to have a direction. Without purpose, you do things randomly. But purpose can be nuanced. For others, their purpose is to help people or make the world a better place. Others dream of sending people to Mars. It doesn t have to be that grand. Every person is different. Your purpose should Continue Reading The post Purpose, Not Happiness appeared first on Craftdeology .
No one can explain the true reason we re here. We don t really know. Religions have been trying to understand it for centuries. Philosophies and cultures have their own takes as well. If you believe in them, that s fine. If you have your own philosophy, that s fine as well. But the truth remains: Life is a Continue Reading The post The Only Gift That Matters appeared first on Craftdeology .
Any journey towards reaching a dream stops not because of the challenge, but because of giving up. It s that simple. Giving up is not always wrong. Sometimes it s the best course of action. The difference lies in the reason. Did you give up because you ve changed and wanted to try something different? Or is it Continue Reading The post Try Again appeared first on Craftdeology .
Imagine waking up tomorrow, and all your personal problems are gone. All the things you worried about: money, relationships, job, business, career, school, etc. Solved. Gone. Poof! Peace of mind. Finally. But there s one caveat: You re only going to live for a week. No, you don t have all the money in the world. You re just Continue Reading The post The Last Week of Your Life appeared first on…
Sometimes we re up, sometimes down. Sometimes we re pulling, sometimes pushing. Sometimes we flow like water. But sometimes we also attack like a storm. Sometimes we re the knowledgeable. But also, sometimes (or most of the time) we re the ignorant. We can t just like cold if we haven t experienced hot. Same with liking comfort over discomfort. Or Continue Reading The post You are a Contradiction…
The most fascinating thing about fear is that it only happens when we’re not experiencing danger in real-time. This means, whatever it is that we feel afraid of, it’s not happening yet. Our minds are just preparing us. It s a warning. A possibility. And since it s the modern world where most people are relatively Continue Reading The post Fear is Preparation appeared first on Craftdeology .
To be disciplined, motivated, and happy. To have self-control and a peaceful state of mind. More money. Success. Status. Opportunities. All the good stuff. We wanted to have them or embody them. But nothing s ever going to be perfect. There will always be things that trouble us. And so, the battle begins. A battle between Continue Reading The post 100,000 Battles appeared first on Craftdeology .
This is an experiment on a free day. Let s call this Dream Day . Forget everything and just focus on working on your dreams (whatever that dream is). Forget the news. Forget your favorite TV series. Forget your debts and the awful things you did when you re drunk, maybe horny. Forget life outside yourself. If you Continue Reading The post How to Start Working On Your Dreams (48 Days in a Year)…
Most people around you don t believe in what you do. They belittle your dreams. They talk behind your back. Guess what, if you still have the time to deal with all this bullshit, it s likely you re not that obsessed with achieving your goals. Being obsessed means you don t have time for the things that don t Continue Reading The post Positivity on Steroids appeared first on Craftdeology .