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Clover Stroud: On The Way Life Feels

I write about the moments that make up our extraordinary lives, especially related to creativity, relationships, sobriety, motherhood, grief and joy. I like hearing other's experiences too, so we can connect through a sense of our shared humanity

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A realisation on Brighton Pier, as I watched my daughter playing slot machines, about the way grief has expanded our lives, in the most surprising ways

Some thoughts on the role guilt plays in grief, and how we can turn that guilt into something surprising and beautiful

I have been sober for five years. This is a video about why and how I have chosen to remove alcohol from my life

This is like sitting in the kitchen having a chat with me. I wish we could do this in real life. Maybe we will one day.

Food, sex, books: everything I ate on holiday, what it did to my body, and the voracious way that made me feel. Plus 8 novels I read instead of Instagram while I was away

I'm sharing all the butter and cream I ate, and exactly what that did to all my appetites. I promised I'd share my reading list too, and with Instagram blocked, I read quite a lot. They are all here.

Should I be concentrating harder on the days of my life?

Every morning in France, I've been observing the same woman in a cafe, since everything about her life looks compelling. I want to hold onto my days, but tread lightly too. I'm not sure how to do it.

I'm on holiday in this amazing place you've probably never heard of. And for once I'm really trying to answer my OWN needs

I'm doing the things I need to do, rather than answering everyone else's needs before my own. Also thoughts on oysters, sleep advice, motherhood and mid-life... it's all here.

Can we talk about Instagram, please?

Because recently, Instagram is giving me the ick, due to the slickness of all those reels, saying absolutely nothing, and I'm not sure if I should stay there any longer, if my life is to have meaning.

20 funny, strange and colourful things I have noticed about life in England, after three years away

I am still seeing England with new eyes, and it's beautiful and strange.

The human qualities you need to write, and finish, a book. Or any major project, in fact.

So you want to write a book? I have just finished my fifth, so let me share with you the qualities I've learned are essential to get that, or any big endeavour, done.

Why my decade as a single mother was the greatest creative gift of my life

We're told becoming a parent destroy's creativity-but what if the opposite was true? I've written about the circumstances of how I had my first child here, and the chaos then creativity that followed

Putting my head back together

Last week my mind felt like melting butter, and while it’s coming back into focus a bit, it's still pixelated into bit and pieces.

There should be a special name for burn out when you have kids or are a carer for other people.

Because who will make supper, even if you are completely fried?