Join J'ay, Torrian, and Chef Von,three strong individually opinionated friends, debate today’s pop culture, politics, and lifestyles while spotlighting the intersection of black and gay identities. The conversations held are sometimes intense but always comical and eyebrow-raising. Catch My Black and Gay Podcast, a weekly bite-size podcast will have you inspired to keep an open mind with your views on life.
What starts as a discussion about age gaps in relationships quickly evolves into a deeper debate about influence, consent, friendship, and the responsibilities we have when someone clearly tells us who they are and what they want. Along the way, Jay, Torrian, and Chef Von unpack the challenges of loneliness in the Black LGBTQ+ community, whether power can exist beyond age, and where the line is…
Today, we're giving you an exclusive first listen to a brand-new project: Extreme Curiosity. This fictional audio drama follows a Black gay man who insists he's not stalking anyone... he's just extremely curious. What starts as innocent fascination with strangers quickly turns into brief obsessions that blur the line between curiosity, connection, and something a little more concerning. Extreme…
Torrian's back and he did NOT come to play. After sitting out last week's episode about "fairy godfathers," "mentors," and grown men who overstepped, Torian pulls up with receipts, tea, and a story of his own. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 213-349-8220 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website:…
What began as affectionate nostalgia, remembering the men who taught them gay culture, the language, how to navigate the lifestyle — gradually unfolds into a heavier realization. With the hindsight of adulthood and therapy, we come to name what they experienced for what it was: grooming! Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 213-349-8220 Follow us on all social media platforms IG -…
Jay has a confession to make: he might be a prude... or maybe he's just becoming a full-blown Karen. The guys discuss apartment living etiquette, and the fine line between being considerate and being competely annoyed by everyone. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 213-349-8220 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website:…
What happens when your own grandmother breaks your femur, and then gives your money to the church? The guys break down a wild TikTok story that has the internet completely divided. Is he wrong for going after the insurance? Was grandma out of pocket? And why are the cousins making everything worse? Buckle up, because this family drama has layers. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at…
This week, the crew tackles a story that has sparked conversations across the country—the tragic death of Nolan Wells, an 18-year-old Black teen from Mississippi whose disappearance and death have left many unanswered questions. As details continue to emerge, Jay, Torrian, and Chef Von discuss race, trust, community, and the realities of navigating America as Black people. The conversation expands…
Inspired by a recent episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta, the conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about sexuality, identity, religion, family expectations, and the complicated ways LGBTQ+ people are represented in media. What starts as reality TV commentary evolves into an honest and vulnerable conversation about growing up gay, navigating shame, acceptance, parenthood, and…
In one of our most vulnerable conversations yet, Chef Von opens up about addiction, mental health, recovery, and the friends who helped him find his way back to himself. It's an honest, emotional, and at times hilarious reminder that healing isn't linear, but showing up for yourself is always worth it. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media…
After nearly three years, the crew is finally back—and picking up right where they left off. In this episode, Jay, Chef Von, and Torrian reconnect, reflect on their time away, and ease back into their signature unfiltered chemistry. From hilarious behind-the-scenes struggles with dusty equipment and tech issues to real conversations about career transitions, personal growth, and evolving…
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