# Candice Tamara The unfiltered, no-BS truth about manifesting your SP, self-concept & becoming impossible to abandon. From anxious AF, chasing & never chosen to happily married to my SP-teaching thousands to create the relationships they ACTUALLY want.No settling💁🏼‍♀️ Page: Feed: --- ## [Manifesting Your SP but Wondering If It's Even Working?](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/manifesting-sp-waiting-vs-receiving) _2026-08-14 · Candice Tamara_ The difference between waiting for your manifestation... and actually receiving it. ## [I Manifested My SP In One Week (After 5 Months of Doubt)](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/i-manifested-my-sp-in-one-week-after) _2026-08-07 · Candice Tamara_ They repeated my assumptions back to me, word for word... but only after I did this. ## [This STOPS Them Pulling Away From You (Even If They're "Avoidant")](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/this-stops-them-pulling-away-from) _2026-07-24 · Candice Tamara_ I spent years blaming avoidants. I was wrong. Now I know exactly what changes the moment you catch feelings... and I'll show you how to change it BEFORE they start pulling away. ## [Babe, No Contact Isn't the Reason You Don't Have Your SP Yet.](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/no-contact-manifestation-sp) _2026-07-17 · Candice Tamara_ No-BS truths about manifesting your SP during no contact, how you're accidentally stopping your own movement and the shift that's brought my clients' SPs back from months of ghosting. ## [If I Woke Up Tomorrow in No Contact With My SP, Here's How I'd Manifest Them Back](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/manifest-sp-no-contact) _2026-07-10 · Candice Tamara_ I manifested my husband. Knowing everything I know now, this is exactly what I'd do. ## [Ep 62: Money Manifestation: Heal Your Relationship With Money To Attract More](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-62-money-manifestation-heal-your-843) _2026-05-29 · Candice Tamara_ In this episode of the F\*CK Trauma Podcast, we’re diving into your relationship with money, scarcity, abundance and the subconscious beliefs that may be blocking you from manifesting more. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262269/5ee91651d48b499195a92d79ba89d78c.mp3) ## [Ep 61: How to Actually Change Your Self-Concept (So Your Relationships Change Too) | Law of Assumption](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-61-how-to-actually-change-your-dab) _2026-05-08 · Candice Tamara_ Anxious attachment, self-concept work, manifestation, subconscious reprogramming and nervous system healing all go hand in hand… and in this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to actually change your self-concept so your relationships and reality can finally change too. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262270/8b0a35fc768337373caee8b9359a6448.mp3) ## [Ep 60: How I Manifested My Pregnancy (But I Had to Shift This First)](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-60-how-i-manifested-my-pregnancy-b42) _2026-05-01 · Candice Tamara_ In this episode, I’m sharing something really personal - how I manifested my pregnancy, and the deeper shifts that had to happen for me to actually receive it. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262271/b023769e714842035f9135e963591d4f.mp3) ## [Ep 59: How to Attract a New Secure Partner Using the Law of Assumption (Anxious Attachment)](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-59-how-to-attract-a-new-secure-fa8) _2026-04-10 · Candice Tamara_ Anxious attachment: If you keep attracting the same type of person -emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or “not ready” - this episode will show you why it’s happening and how to finally change it. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262272/c9ebbe2f32bd1b3ee441f089668aeca6.mp3) ## [Ep 58: How to Change the Way Someone Treats You in a Relationship Without Chasing Using the Law of Assumption (Anxious Attachment)](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-58-how-to-change-the-way-someone-0d4) _2026-03-20 · Candice Tamara_ If you have an anxious attachment style, you’ve probably found yourself chasing, overgiving, and trying to get someone to change only to feel more drained, more confused, and more disconnected. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262273/03d238f2c16c5ac8b2d4dfc369e9b0a2.mp3) ## [Every Channel. One Login. (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/vSwiCQJD2Io3) _2026-03-20 · **Sponsored**_ 17,000+ live channels, movies and sports on any device. Free trial, no IP lock. ## [Ep 57: How to Reconnect With Someone From Your Past Using the Law of Assumption (Anxious Attachment)](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-57-how-to-reconnect-with-someone-065) _2026-03-06 · Candice Tamara_ Anxious attachment can make it feel impossible to reconnect with someone from your past - especially when you’re stuck in no contact, obsessing over what happened, or wondering if your anxiety pushed them away. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262274/a289a51c7403734f262f8ffddc182413.mp3) ## [Ep 56: Why Anxious Attachment Struggles to Manifest Love (Law of Assumption & Self-Concept)](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-56-why-anxious-attachment-struggles-3e7) _2026-02-13 · Candice Tamara_ If you have anxious attachment and you’re trying to manifest love, this episode will explain exactly why it can feel harder for you - especially when using the Law of Assumption. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262275/4c9e081efc0924377850c37963aac610.mp3) ## [Ep 55: 6 Ways You’re Still Chasing Love (Without Realising It)](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-55-6-ways-youre-still-chasing-4a2) _2026-02-06 · Candice Tamara_ If you have anxious attachment, this episode is for you. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262276/42a0f0ada94eb45a26885cc421882d29.mp3) ## [Ep 54: Why They're Not Choosing You](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-54-why-theyre-not-choosing-you-efa) _2026-01-26 · Candice Tamara_ Anxious attachment doesn’t come from the people you date - it comes from the belief that you are not chosen. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262277/ab0c2bc5096e46b0536e56c32e05b875.mp3) ## [Ep 53: What Choosing You Actually Means (And How to Start Doing It)](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-53-what-choosing-you-actually-4ec) _2026-01-16 · Candice Tamara_ Everyone tells you to “choose yourself.” [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262278/29f2df707b614dade68162adcc99fbc5.mp3) ## [Ep 52: The Truth About Anxious Attachment: It’s Not Who You Are - It’s a State (Law of Assumption)](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-52-the-truth-about-anxious-attachment-f31) _2025-11-28 · Candice Tamara_ Most people believe anxious attachment is a personality type. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262279/5d46788d22f3d5f1e9bfea0c11b2754a.mp3) ## [Ep 51: Why Avoidants Change When You Change State (Law of Assumption)](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-51-why-avoidants-change-when-you-e64) _2025-11-21 · Candice Tamara_ Are avoidants actually avoidant… or are they reflecting something deeper back to you - especially if you have anxious attachment? [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262280/4a22fccc87b92bb2c1b348f93abc930e.mp3) ## [Ep 50: You Can’t Change Them Until You Change You: Self-Concept & The Law of Assumption in Love](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-50-you-cant-change-them-until-cf1) _2025-11-14 · Candice Tamara_ If you’ve ever tried to “fix” a relationship, change someone’s behaviour, or get consistency from someone who keeps pulling away… this episode will completely shift the way you see love, relationships and attachment. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262281/0081546736e0ba15bb39bd1aca4937e2.mp3) ## [Ep 49: The Real Reason You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People (and How to Finally Stop It)](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-49-the-real-reason-you-keep-attracting-b47) _2025-10-31 · Candice Tamara_ If you have an anxious attachment style or find yourself constantly attracting emotionally unavailable, avoidant, or inconsistent partners, this episode will change everything. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262282/4fba5cef2a93526f93a541ae78c9e8e1.mp3) ## [Your 24/7 AI Media Buyer (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/3V5MYtMV3bWZ) _2025-10-31 · **Sponsored**_ Finds placement, geo, and funnel leaks and proposes fixes you approve ## [Ep 48: Tranform Your Relationships with the Law of Assumption](https://candicetamara.substack.com/p/ep-48-tranform-your-relationships-ad4) _2025-10-24 · Candice Tamara_ If you struggle with anxious attachment and relationships that feel like a rollercoaster… this episode will change EVERYTHING. [Listen](https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/205262283/c12b4801ef0a6c77bbdd4acf76587879.mp3)