The Tactile Anchor Mindfulness Practice

When the mind starts to “loop”—spinning on a worry that hasn’t happened yet (and I’m super guilty of that, I’m sure many of us are, spending time worrying about something that might not even happen). It’s a frustrating side effect of being human. But when our minds spiral like this, we need a physical interrupt. This is the Somatosensory Anchor.

Find an object that feels “real” and has some weight to it. Like, for example, the iron key that features in all my Substack images. It’s there as a little reminder of an anchor. When I do this practice, I often grab my heavy cork yoga block (there’s something about the weight of it that feels comforting). Maybe it’s just your phone. Or a favourite mug. Or maybe it is a set of house keys. Hold it in your hand. Close your eyes and describe the texture to yourself. Is it pitted? Is it smooth? Is it heavier than it looks?

This is a Grounding Technique that forces the brain to shift from the “Default Mode Network” (the part of the brain that ruminates and worries about the future) to the “Task-Positive Network” which is a group of brain regions that activate during attention demanding tasks where you’re really focused on something. You can’t fully describe the texture of an object and worry about your filing your tax return at the same exact second. (Side note: this is also why I love my daily yoga practice. It switches my brain to this mode where I’m focused on breathing, and moving my body in specific shapes or poses, and not on…whatever I might have been worrying or ruminating about.)

It’s something heavy and real to hold onto when the day feels a bit too intangible and flighty and you need something to bring you back to reality. And here’s a thought, if your object is a heavy set of keys, you can think of them as not opening doors but opening a moment of stillness. It’s an anchor in the storm of “what-ifs.”

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