By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex. Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with…
Bisexual+ people are often overlooked in research, so what happens when a study focuses entirely on us? This week on By the Bi , Angela and Bradford dive into the groundbreaking BiSHH (Bi+ Sexual Health and HIV) Study from UNSW. As a member of the study’s advisory panel, Angela shares what makes this research so important and why it’s a milestone for the bi+ community. We unpack some of the…
Every June, the world turns rainbow. Companies update their logos, Pride festivals fill city streets, and social media overflows with messages of support. For many LGBTQ+ people, it's a celebration of how far we've come. For others, it raises some uncomfortable questions. Has Pride become too commercial? Has it become less political? Has it become more inclusive—or less? And where do bisexual,…
Angela and Bradford get delightfully real (and a little spicy) about The Bonding Project ( https://www.bondingproject.com/ ) from the Center for Positive Sexuality; a research-driven relationship quiz that’s basically Myers-Briggs for intimacy, mapping how you bond across dimensions like stability vs exploration, independence vs togetherness, and structure vs flexibility. They tease apart the 16…
In this episode of By the Bi , we’re diving into the importance of community within bisexual, non-monogamous, and kink spaces. We talk about why having a sense of belonging matters so much, especially when your identity or lifestyle sits outside the mainstream and how the right community can provide support, validation, and genuine connection. We also get real about the challenges: showing up…
In this episode of By the Bi, we sit down for our annual relationship check-in and we decided to invite you along. This is an unscripted, intimate conversation about love, desire, communication, and the life we’re actively building together. We talk about what feels good, what feels stuck, and what’s quietly evolving—from emotional connection and long-term satisfaction to sex, intimacy,…
NOTE: THIS IS NOT A RE-RELEASE! THIS IS NEW!!!!! (And you're gonna love it!) You ask for it… again and again. This week on By the Bi , things get steamy, sticky, and just a little bit stripped down as we revisit one of our most unforgettable indulgences with The Gentleman. There’s heat, there’s tension, and yes—plenty of smooth, satisfying moments where everything is laid bare. Angela brings the…
This week on By the Bi , Bradford spills the tea on a recent Grindr hookup that turned into something way more than just a quick fling. What started as a bit of fun quickly unlocked a whole new kink he didn’t see coming —and now he can’t stop thinking about it. Angela digs into the juicy details as the two unpack what it’s like to unexpectedly discover a new layer of your sexuality, how it feels…
This week on By the Bi , we’re coming to you live from the sun-drenched, pleasure-filled playground of Xcape to the Tropics 2025! Join Angela and Bradford as they soak up the vibes, connect with the community, and dive into the sexy, adventurous, and sometimes downright outrageous moments that make this event one of the lifestyle calendar’s most anticipated highlights. From themed parties and…
Hello all… it’s been a minute, but we are back! This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive deep into a topic that underpins everything in the lifestyle — authenticity. Whether you’re navigating polyamory, kink, or just trying to show up as your whole self in everyday life, authenticity can be both empowering and terrifying. So what does it really mean to be authentic? And how do you maintain…
Due to travel schedules, this week’s episode is a rerelease. This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle a topic that’s often shrouded in silence and stigma: sexually transmitted infections (STIs). In this powerful episode, we delve into the realities and misconceptions surrounding STIs, aiming to foster a more understanding and informed conversation. Join us as we discuss the importance of…