Have you ever wondered why showing up on social media feels so much harder than performing on stage?
For years, I stood in the wings of Broadway theaters, heart pounding, waiting for the curtain to rise. I knew my lines, my choreography, my cues. I understood the relationship between performer and audience because it was tangible—immediate feedback, applause, energy exchanged in real-time. But when I pivoted into the world of online content creation, something shifted. Suddenly, the spotlight was replaced by a tiny lens, the audience unseen and unpredictable, and the rules? Constantly changing.
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What I came to realize is this: the skills that made me a successful performer are the same skills that now drive my visibility and engagement online. And if you come from a creative or performance background, you too have an untapped superpower for thriving in the algorithmic age.
Let me show you how.
The Stage and the Scroll: Two Performances, One Core
At first glance, the performing arts and social media might seem worlds apart. One is rooted in tradition, discipline, and craft; the other in immediacy, trends, and spontaneity. But both demand one crucial element: the ability to connect.
In theater, we learn how to read a room, adjust energy, project presence, and embody a story. These same principles apply to content creation. Whether it's a 60-second Reel or a day-in-the-life TikTok, the goal remains the same: evoke emotion, create resonance, and invite an audience into an experience.
The key difference? On social media, you don't wait for permission to be seen. You show up.
Reframing Performance Anxiety: From Perfection to Play
One of the biggest mindset shifts I had to make was releasing the need for every piece of content to be a fully polished production. In theater, we rehearse for weeks before opening night. Online, the script is ever-evolving, and the performance is iterative.
This is where many creatives freeze. "It’s not ready yet." "I don’t have the right lighting." "Someone already did it better."
But here's the truth: social media rewards experimentation. The more you treat content like rehearsal—a place to try, fail, refine—the more magnetic your presence becomes. Your audience doesn't need perfection; they crave authenticity.
So borrow from improv. Say "yes, and." Jump into the trend, even if it's messy. Post the take with the flub. Let people see your process, not just your highlight reel.
The Art of Repetition: Trends as Choreography
On stage, we repeat the same show night after night. We know that repetition isn't redundancy; it's refinement. Similarly, trends on social media function like choreography. They offer a framework—a beat, a structure, a rhythm. Within that structure, your interpretation becomes the story.
Take a trending audio, for example. Everyone's using it, right? So why should you?
Because your perspective transforms it. The way you embody the moment, the narrative you layer on top, the setting you choose—all of that makes the trend yours. Think of it as joining an ensemble number: you're one voice among many, but your delivery makes it unique.
Collaborative Energy in a Digital World
In theater, collaboration is everything. You rely on your castmates, your crew, your director. No show exists in a vacuum. The same is true for successful social media creators. Trends thrive because of collective momentum. Engagement grows when creators echo, remix, and amplify each other.
So instead of seeing another person's viral video as competition, view it as an invitation. Jump in. Contribute to the cultural conversation. Collaboration, not comparison, is the new standing ovation.
This is especially true for LGBTQ+ creators and multi-hyphenates. Our stories, our lived experiences, our intersections bring necessary diversity to the content landscape. When we show up in trends, we shift norms. We disrupt the default. We build visibility not just for ourselves, but for our communities.
Blocking Your Own Show: Resistance as Direction
If you find yourself hesitating to post, doubting your relevance, or feeling overwhelmed by the pace of content creation, you’re not alone. But what if those resistances were actually stage directions?
In acting, we don’t ignore tension; we lean into it. It tells us where the scene lives. Similarly, your inner critic might be pointing you toward your edge—the very place your voice is most needed.
Ask yourself: What story am I avoiding? What part of me wants to be seen? How can I use this trend, this moment, this post to reveal something real?
Final Curtain (For Now)
The future of personal branding isn't about being louder. It's about being clearer. And for creatives, especially those of us who come from performance backgrounds, clarity comes through expression.
So the next time you scroll past a trend and think, "I can't do that," I challenge you to ask instead: "How would I do that?"
Because showing up online is not about chasing trends—it's about transforming them. It's about bringing your unique story to a stage that's always open, always shifting, and always in need of voices like yours.
Let the algorithm be your audience.
Let the trend be your script.
And let your truth be the performance.
Take a bow. Then post.
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