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Brendan Stec's Essays · Mar 29, 2025

Past regrets

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Past Regrets

A helpful decision-making tool: analyze your past regrets.

Most regrets will be things you didn’t do:

  • “If only I had tried Y…”

  • “Why didn’t I just go and do X…”

  • “I wish I had done Z…”

You can’t change the past. But try to see if those past regrets exhibit a pattern you can break in the future. Regrets can stem from laziness, risk aversion, conformity, denial, etc.

Mine typically stem from timidity. I often regret not being more assertive and bold. What could I have achieved with a trifle more audacity—had I known how little the world notices your stumbles, and how swiftly the moment to leap slips into the past?

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