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It's your time. Step into your Power, Activate, Awaken and remember who you are: Someone who takes what's owed without apologies. Anyone can see, very visibly, how the Craft (AKA that weird, witchy "stuff") has revolutionized my business and who I am. If I showed you older photos, you wouldn't believe I'm the same person. My writing, my aura, my appearance, my profits, and my outlook on life have…
S*x work is but an alternate reality within a reality of unending alternate realities. Clients and civilians generally don't comprehend that nothing should be taken at face value or assumed to be "authentic" in the SW social media/marketing realm and yet, s*x workers are so Divinely skilled at manipulating client perception that these (mostly) men will forever remain under our spell. Allow me to…
At times, I really don't know why we bother. I see why so many femme SWers don't date cisgender men, a fact we may not discuss publicly due to possible harm to our businesses. Discussing my thoughts on a difficult topic is always a challenge and challenges are fun so let's discuss some of the unique reasons why dating as a SW can suck. Dating in 2026 generally sucks, but providers experience…
The taste and smell of his cologne are all that I can concentrate on as he wriggles in ecstasy beneath me. Many men have very sensitive necks and I love the power I wield, licking my tongue languorously up and down, just beneath his earlobe. It's fun to drive him crazy and keep him breathless as I straddle him while wearing nothing but my leather skirt and black push-up bra. He had requested a…
This simple strategy has correlated to an increase in profit margin/extended dates and although many providers exploit it already, many don't yet know about it. Of course, I've always seen providers who list their rates in descending order (highest to lowest) but it was one of the many things on my to-do list that hadn't gotten done. There's more to it than just, "List your prices from the most…
We are brainwashed into believing that we need Twitter/X in order to survive as SWers when really, X is a toxically addictive algorithm designed to break our brains and make us think we need it. What we need is to improve our branding and marketing, not waste more energy on social media platforms that only serve our egos with dopamine hits. Books like Stolen Focus help us to understand that…
No one can believe that I've been in (and out) of this world for twenty years and as the new year rolled around, I began contemplating the pros and cons of SW in 2026 vs 2006. Although I started my SW venture by advertising on Craigslist and have never worked the blade or placed physical ads in the back of an alternative newspaper, I have experienced the rise of what I call the increasing…
When we glance at a SWer's ads, website, and social media, they may seem suave, smooth and seductive while lithely posing, nips ablazing in that sheer, glamorously overpriced Honey Birdette lingerie set. Their hair is perfect. Their "look" is perfectly catered to the male gaze. Their social media is... mostly perfect. (Not talking about myself here.) Observers would have no idea, based on surface…
Many of the SWers I know are unwittingly screwing themselves out of income by using anonymous VoIP "burner" text app phone numbers to communicate with admirers. Our admirers also use these services, like Burner, Hushed, Sideline and TextNow. Quite a few dudes are wondering why that lovely provider never texted them back. She did. My dudes simply didn't receive a text back because VoIP numbers…
"Women who do SW over the age of 30 are sad. Pathetic. They should have made enough money to retire by now. Could never be me!" reads a SW X viral tweet. Ok, I just made that sentence up because I barely use X and didn't think to save the barrage of ageist tweets I've seen since I joined the platform in 2018/2019. (I forget when I joined, TBH.) A friend informed me that an online worker recently…
