I recently had a thought-provoking conversation with a team member eager to learn about management. They asked me about my journey, what my day-to-day looks like, and things they could do now to start preparing.
This conversation got me reflecting on the qualities that helped me transition into management. Though I was hesitant to leave behind the thrill of building things, I was also passionate about coaching and mentoring others at work and in my personal life. So, when the opportunity to become a manager presented itself, it felt like a natural fit.
After a year of managing a team, I’ve identified essential qualities that every manager should have. While this is not an exhaustive list, I’m confident these attributes will help you determine if you’re ready for management.
Have a mentoring mindset
As a manager, one of your most important roles is to guide and support your team members to reach their fullest potential. Whether solving a problem, overcoming a challenge, or developing new skills, your team members will look to you for direction and support. This means you must be ready to become a mentor, someone your team, can turn to for advice and guidance.
Mentoring can be a hugely rewarding part of being a manager, but it's not for everyone. If you prefer working independently and focusing on yourself, you may not enjoy this part of the role. On the other hand, if you want to coach and help others grow, being a mentor could be incredibly fulfilling.
Willing to step away from the day-to-day
It’s important to realize that if you move into a management position, you’ll leave many aspects of your old job behind.
Although it may seem obvious that a management position comes with new responsibilities, it's worth highlighting that your focus will shift to managing your team and helping them perform at their best. You'll have to delegate tasks and trust your team members to handle them, which means less hands-on involvement in daily tasks such as coding and designing.
If you're not ready to step away from the day-to-day, it's worth considering whether a management role is right for you. On the other hand, if you're willing to embrace new challenges, you may find that management is a rewarding career path.
Prepared to evaluate others’ performance
You'll be responsible for evaluating the performance of your team members. So, you'll need to provide feedback on their work, assess their progress, and make decisions that impact their careers and financial outcomes. It can be challenging, especially if you were colleagues or friends with some of them before becoming their manager.
If you're uncomfortable with this, you might want to consider pursuing the Principal path instead of management. However, if you're interested in developing your skills in this area, you can ask your manager or another experienced manager for guidance on the evaluation process.
Being a manager is all about helping your team members grow and succeed. Therefore, you need to be ready to evaluate their performance and provide constructive feedback to help them improve.
Enjoy answering questions and collaboration
You should be ready to share your advice, provide input on various projects, and be willing to receive and incorporate feedback from others.
As a manager, your job will revolve around communicating and collaborating with others, so you'll need to be able to jump from project to project and interact with various people.
However, if you find answering questions and collaborating tiresome or uninteresting, you'll likely be frustrated quickly with management.
Embrace the challenge of being a good manager
If you don't have all these qualities right now, don't worry! I didn't either—but being a manager aligned with my career goals. I wanted to lead and empower others and was ready to commit to being a learning leader.
Anyone can become a good manager with the right mindset and dedication.
If you're passionate about making a difference, leading by example, and empowering others, then being a manager could be the perfect fit.
Are you ready to be an engineering manager checklist:
You’re ready to be a mentor and invest yourself in someone else’s career growth
You have technical expertise in your space, but you’re willing to take a step back and trust your team
You’re prepared to evaluate your team’s performance and provide candid feedback
You don’t get annoyed when someone asks you a question
You want to be a good manager (Not just seeking a promo)

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