The guide for explorers of unusual sex
Have you also had the impression that lately there seem to be a lot of ADHD, autism, OCD, and so on diagnoses popping up in the kink sphere? Certainly, the greater attention paid to mental health recently is also a cause, but when the frequency of cases reaches such high levels, it s time to learn [ ] The post Kink and neurodivergence Interview with Rodolfo Pessina appeared first on Ayzad .
Illustration by PandaScimmia The field of alternative sexualities is subjected – just like any other – to trends that are generally temporary, typically self-important, and usually harmless. Just to make an example: for a few years now, prostitutes who exchange rentals between colleagues in different cities to hunt for fresh clients have been pompously announcing [ ] The post Kink coaching –…
Certain “extreme” erotic games are actually within everyone s reach, as in the case of wax play (simply put, stimulating passion using hot wax, usually from a candle). It all depends on knowing how to prevent the most common accidents and knowing one trick so you don t have to call the plumber the next morning. Here [ ] The post Wax play 101 appeared first on Ayzad .
Consent is at the core of any form of eroticism: the world of sex positivity rightly talks about it all the time, but are you sure you know what it really means? Things are a bit more complicated than just saying yes , and knowing how to properly handle them can greatly enhance your life (and [ ] The post Consent, expounded appeared first on Ayzad .
One of the questions I am frequently asked as a coach specialized in alternative sexualities is: «how can I convince my partner to try some new erotic games?» This article will provide you with all the answers you seek but first, let s take a closer look at the question. That one sentence hides many [ ] The post Wanna try something new? – All the secrets to suggest erotic games to your partners…
«Master, what is the secret of the universe?» The weathered sage holds his inspired silence for a moment, observing the glide of a dragonfly over the Zen garden. Then he whispers: «When you are hungry, it is better to eat.» Profound truths do this, sounding like embrarassingly mundane self-evidences. Yet, upon closer inspection, you find [ ] The post Fragile Monsters appeared first on Ayzad .
Many people believe that tantra is an ancient Indian erotic technique that leads to hours of sex and mystical orgasms. Well, that s not true but orgasms are definitely involved! Here s a guide to avoid being fooled and become a guru in no time. What is tantra ? In the Sanskrit language, the word ‘tantra’ simply [ ] The post Tantric Sex: The Most Erotic Scam in the World appeared first on Ayzad .
Talking about ‘exhibitionism’ there is a risk as with many other sex-related things of serious misunderstandings. One word actually refers to both a crime and a potentially very fun erotic game that has nothing to do with it or almost nothing. Let s see why. Criminal exhibitionism We all know the stereotype [ ] The post Show me the world of exhibitionism appeared first on Ayzad .
When talking about BDSM, someone always mentions ‘the Old Guard’ often referring to it as ‘Leather culture’, especially in the United States. It is usually to reminisce of how «things used to be different and much better back then» but are we really sure about that? Let s clarify things and see what we can [ ] The post Leather Culture, explained appeared first on Ayzad .
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