# Kunlun — RSS Amplifier Everything Kunlun publishes, via the RSS Amplifier directory. Page: Feed: --- ## [Are You Solving the Problem for Your Child or Replacing the Skill?](https://playfulbrains.substack.com/p/are-you-solving-the-problem-for-your) _2026-08-17 · Playful Brains_ Why the behavior in front of you may not be the skill your child actually needs ## [Your Nervous System Is the Lever: How to Stop Stress From Parenting for You](https://playfulbrains.substack.com/p/your-nervous-system-is-the-lever) _2026-08-13 · Playful Brains_ Why changing your state, not finding the perfect words, is often the fastest way to change a difficult parenting moment ## [Why You Lose Patience Even When You Care](https://playfulbrains.substack.com/p/why-you-lose-patience-even-when-you) _2026-08-10 · Playful Brains_ The problem is not always that you need better parenting advice. Sometimes stress has made that advice temporarily unavailable. ## [How to Handle Performance Pressure Through the Regulation Lens](https://playfulbrains.substack.com/p/how-to-handle-performance-pressure) _2026-08-06 · Playful Brains_ A practical framework for reading homework resistance, telling anxiety from avoidance, and knowing when to push, pause, or support your child ## [Homework Battles Aren’t Really About Homework](https://playfulbrains.substack.com/p/homework-battles-arent-really-about) _2026-08-03 · Playful Brains_ Why ordinary schoolwork can trigger such big feelings in both children and parents ## [The Fear-or-Learning Filter](https://playfulbrains.substack.com/p/the-fear-or-learning-filter) _2026-07-30 · Playful Brains_ A practical way to tell whether your discipline is building responsibility or just compliance ## [Why Yelling Feels Effective But Doesn't Teach Your Child](https://playfulbrains.substack.com/p/why-yelling-feels-effective-but-doesnt) _2026-07-27 · Playful Brains_ The hidden reason raised voices change behavior quickly, but often fail to teach what we hope. Discover why fear changes behavior fast and why it rarely builds lasting self-control. ## [How to Spot Emotional Overload in Kids Early](https://playfulbrains.substack.com/p/how-to-spot-emotional-overload-in) _2026-07-23 · Playful Brains_ Identify the early signs of emotional overload in children, how to tell flooding from ordinary resistance, and what to do before a meltdown escalates ## [Your Child Isn’t Ignoring You — They’re Flooded](https://playfulbrains.substack.com/p/your-child-isnt-ignoring-you-theyre) _2026-07-21 · Playful Brains_ When kids ignore, argue, or collapse over small requests, they may be emotionally flooded. Here’s why difficult behavior often starts before words can explain it ## [Watch chovy live code (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/0G0iIU75Saaf) _2026-07-21 · **Sponsored**_ Join Mosh Coding streams with collaborative screen sharing and remote control, open source. ## [Regulation Before Instruction: A Parenting Framework](https://playfulbrains.substack.com/p/regulation-before-instruction-a-parenting) _2026-07-16 · Playful Brains_ A practical framework for knowing when to regulate, when to connect, and when to teach during meltdowns, shutdowns, and emotional overload