The art world is a funny mix of work in extremeley social situations. After a decade in the industry, I reflected on my “art rules” that I live by. Here they are (non-exhaustive):
If you don’t know what to say about an artwork, to either the gallerist or artist, ask a question.
Always be on time.
If I’ve met someone less than three times, I give them a pass if they don’t remember me and gladly offer my name as if it’s our first time meeting. After the third time, I’ll remind them we’ve already met and where: “We met at XYZ, it’s so nice to see you again!”
Similarly, I’ll let someone retell the same story to me three times before I gently say: I’ve heard this one, but it’s a great story, and I’d love to hear it again.
No more than one drink at a work function.
Sign the guestbook, it’s there for that reason.
No talking about the artwork in front of it. This is a recipe for disaster (aka the artist overhearing).
Dressing up for openings is a sign of respect.
Buy vintage and secondhand to avoid the rat race of everything having to be current season.
Never post photos from an artist's studio without asking first. Never even take photos at an artist's studio without asking!!
Similarly, do not touch things in an artist’s studio. I genuinely struggle with this one.
No Instagram games: Follow people back, don’t check follower counts, like and comment in excess.
Gossip can be a useful tool. But don’t gossip about your friends.
Have a hobby outside of the art world.
Have friends outside of the art world.
Practice what you preach: Attend openings, buy art, email artists to say you love their work.
Do not quiz your peers! Do you know this artist? What about this one? It gives off the same energy as people who demand you name five songs of a band you like.
It’s okay to follow up on an email two times before letting it go.
No unsolicited advice.
Please leave a comment on your art world (or life) rules!

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