Rome, unhurried
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Loading...A second trip in less than two years to the eternal city, this time without an agenda or any sites to see.
At this point in my life, I’m fortunate to say that I think I am fairly well-traveled. For a while now, I have been collecting one to two new stamps in my passport each year. I have been able to visit more countries and cities than many of my friends and colleagues, but there is still so much I would love to see. If I were a less frequent traveler, it might seem a wasted opportunity to visit a place you’ve already been. But it’s the return visits where you really get to immerse yourself in a place, to follow your own rhythm and not have to worry about where you have to be and when you need to be there.
In that freedom, you’ll be hard-pressed to find a better place to be than Rome. In 2023—my first visit—there were some things I just needed to see with my own eyes… the Colosseum, Roman Forum, Palatine Hill, and Vatican City, to name a few. Places I’ve known about my entire life, that only existed in the pages of a book or a history lesson, so I had to go. And if you visit Rome, you really should see the sites.
In the late afternoon, the overlooks around Villa Borghese are a nice place to relax
This time, our trip was in February, far away from the high peaks of the tourist season. But 2025 was also a Jubilee year, which kept things pretty crowded. Still, it was much more manageable than when we went in May.
One site that I didn’t get to see on my first visit was the Pantheon. We walked over to it, but at that point, it was getting late and the lines were prohibitively long. Not repeating that mistake, we arrived early and beat the crowds. And what an amazing thing to see with your own eyes! Though it was mostly cloudy, we got in there right at a time when the sun wasn’t covered, which made the light look really cool coming through the oculus.
The oculus of the Pantheon. Built in the 2nd century, it still has the largest unsupported concrete dome in the world.
Next to eating, my favorite thing to do in Rome is simply to walk its streets and see where I end up. A random turn here, another one there—getting lost isn’t a bad thing. But the historical center isn’t that big, so at some point you’ll find yourself at some other historical site, main avenue, or the river. I can do this for hours—have to work up that appetite somehow, right?
The always-packed Trevi Fountain and Spanish Steps
But at some point, you have to mix it up a bit and take a day trip or two.
Tivoli is a short train ride from Rome, and a trip that you can easily make in a day if you get there early enough. Because we slept in a bit, we didn’t want to chance missing a train so we took an Uber, which was surprisingly reasonable. Arriving in the afternoon, that left time for us to see one of two main attractions, so we chose to see Villa d’Este and its famous fountains. It was great getting out of the city and seeing something different for a change.
When we left Tivoli, we decided to give taking the train a try. Turned out it was quite easy! The main thing to do is validate tickets at the station, which the internet managed to beat into my head so firmly that there was no way I’d forget to do that. As we waited, some police officers came by and checked everyone’s passports. "Now there’s something you won’t see in the U.S.!" I naively joked to myself (Narrator voice: things changed).
Feeling emboldened with a new sense of confidence for navigating Rome’s transit systems, we decided we might as well book another trip to Orvieto the next day. Orvieto has been inhabited since Etruscan times, which I am told, was many many years ago. It’s situated just inside the Umbrian border, not that far from Rome. An easy day trip.
It was here that I was introduced to what is now one of my go-to white wines, Orvieto Classico, which went perfectly with our Baffo salvia e aceto at the incredibly delicious Trattoria del Moro Aronne. The weather was pretty terrible, extra cold and rainy, so we were only able to stay out for so long before retreating indoors for comfort food and drinks.
The main reason we went to Rome is because my wife was attending a course related to her profession, and I’m there just making a vacation of a partially tax-deductible trip. With our excursions out of the way, we had the next few days to wander around the city a little more. Well, I did, at least. While my wife was at her course and post-course happy hours, I was on my own in the city to explore on foot.
The Trastevere neighborhood and the Roman Forum
On our first trip to Rome, we stayed in the Prati neighborhood. This time, we stayed in Trastevere, closer to historic sites and therefore, a bit heavier on the crowds and touristy restaurants. Speaking of tourists, we did have a half-day together, so we did one of those golf cart tours. Normally, that is the kind of activity I am firmly against because, despite my recently unlocked colonoscopy eligibility, I still have to be cool as fuck. But, it is a way to get someone to show you around the areas that are just out of walking reach. One of those places I would return to was Via Appia Antica.
The golf cart tour - driving towards the Colosseum and Via Appia Antica
Once my wife’s course was in full swing, I had full days to just walk around and do whatever I saw fit—taking pictures, grabbing snacks, and maybe a glass of wine or two. These were the days that really made me fall in love with the city on a deeper level, and how that contrasts with where I currently live. I love Washington, D.C., I really do. But when you’re from a car-centric country, there’s just something special about being in a place that never gave a fuck about the automobile.
Each day, I might have walked between 8 and 11 miles. I wanted to give my feet a little bit of rest, and the way to do that was by renting a bike. Via Appia Antica’s history rivals that of the city itself. It dates back to the 4th century BCE, and it is one of the oldest and most strategically important roads in all of Rome. The road is lined with all sorts of tombs and monuments, and it’s where thousands of Spartacus’s followers were crucified. Perfect place for a bike ride!
To get there, I took every form of public transit Rome has to offer: tram, subway, and bus. The bus stop was a little sketchy because it was at an intersection that was both in the middle of nowhere and inexplicably busy. Also, there wasn’t a sidewalk. But the bike place was just about 1/3rd of a mile up the road.
After getting situated on the bike, I was off. Getting lost is impossible because all you have to do is go straight, and when you’re ready to go back, make a U-turn. It’s a road, and that’s how roads work. I went about 6 miles out before turning back. Nothing too far, but the road is all cobblestone, some of it ancient, so it can be pretty bumpy in some parts. This turned out to be one of my favorite activities. The whole area is one huge park and it’s simply an amazing place to be.
I’m glad that I got to experience Rome a second time, and to do it in a way that didn’t require cramming in so many activities and sites to see. We took each day as it came, only planning what we were going to do at the last minute and that’s a nice pace. When I return, and I know I will, it will be much more an old friend than a destination.