Makes the regexes in pre-commit.yml opt-out instead of opt-in. That way we e.g. also cover setup.py. Also makes ruff apply to everything. started applying mypy to docs/ as well, but that quickly turned out to be just a burdon b/c of missing sphinx references etc, so not worth the enfort imo.

Hey! Looks like you edited the (optional) requirements or the pre-commit hooks. I'm just a friendly reminder to keep the additional dependencies for the hooks in sync with the requirements :)

Hey! Looks like you edited README.rst or README_RAW.rst. I'm just a friendly reminder to apply relevant changes to both of those files :)