Where is it? Is it even real?
Those were my first questions when I started getting curious about the G-spot. I’d heard the hype. I’d read the books. But when I actually went looking for it in my own body?
Crickets.
No sensation. No fireworks. No “aha.” Just… confusion.
And the more I learned—the more I discovered that the G-spot is actually an internal extension of the clitoris, with thousands of nerve endings—I realized something I didn’t want to admit at first.
I was numb!
Completely disconnected from this part of my body.
And that’s when it clicked…
We started this series with the clitoral orgasm—that flash of electricity, that laugh-out-loud kind of joy that hits like a spark. The one that reminds you: joy doesn’t have to be earned. You don’t have to be worthy of it. You just have to allow it.
But this one?
This one was different.
The G-spot asked something deeper of me.
Not just to feel…
But to completely surrender—especially when it got intense.
And oh, did it get intense.
Not in the loud, electric way I was used to.
But in a way that built slowly…crept up unexpectedly…and dared me to keep breathing when I wanted to pull away.
Because here’s the thing:
A woman’s body has multiple ways it says yes—multiple ways it comes alive. Yes, multi-orgasmic!
And the G-spot orgasm?
It speaks in a completely different language.
It doesn’t shout.
It doesn’t sparkle.
It builds.
It asks you to feel the pressure longer. Press deeper. Open wider.
Get curious instead of controlling.
And above all?
It asks you to stop abandoning yourself when it gets intense.
G-Spot 101: The Portal of Trust
Where the clitoris is fire, the G-spot is water.
Subtle. Expansive. Emotional. Mysterious.
This kind of orgasm doesn’t shout — it beckons.
It’s not about friction — it’s about feeling.
And more than anything, it asks one thing of you: surrender.
Here’s what makes it different:
Internal = Emotional
The G-spot is an internal structure — and as we go inward physically, we also go inward emotionally. This type of orgasm is directly tied to your ability to trust, to soften, to open. If the clitoral orgasm is quick and playful, the G-spot asks for presence and patience.
Figure G.1 below shows us where the G-spot is located. It’s underneath the clitoris inside the vagina. More nerve-endings mean more pleasure!
Take note of this visual for “The Edge of Intensity” G-spot activation practice I provided for you below ;)
Figure G.2 demonstrates that each erogenous zone has a corresponding reflexology point. When the G-spot is stimulated, it’s also stimulating the kidneys. This not only improves kidney function, it also stimulates flow in your body and in your life!
The G-spot is connected to your nervous system and intuition
In Taoist tradition, the G-spot is linked to the kidney meridian, which governs fear and trust. So if you’re holding unconscious tension or emotional fear, it’s common to feel numb or disconnected from this area. That’s not a flaw — that’s valuable information you can use in your life and in your business.

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