Hey, I'm Lily from India. This is my first time writing blogs, and I find it beautiful how we can exchange knowledge and experiences through them. Blogs ...
Why Do My Partners Fall Out of Love With Me? The answer may be partially explained by a difference in emotional intelligence. Key points Generating closeness is not the same as sustaining closeness in an interpersonal relationship. Empathy is the cornerstone of emotional intelligence; emotionally unintelligent individuals may lack empathy. Empathy is often necessary to sustain closeness in an…
i have experienced the suffering of deep attachment but its totally wrong to say that attachments give us sufferings. infact its the opposite attachments help us thrive "Transformation happens inside attachment" when we are attached to someone then we learn and grow with them we care for them we gain all the values when we are involved with someone, most importantly we start being selfless which…
The Magic of Breaking Free from Self-Concern By Leo Babauta There’s a mindfulness technique I’ve been practicing for a number of years now, and when I can do it, it’s like magic. The practice is dropping the ego - dropping my self-concern, my sense of being separate from everything else, and returning to wholeness with everything. While that can sound a bit new age-y, what I’ve learned is that…
We all are blind to a lot of things that are literally around us and even pass through our body. The things im talking about is light/waves. lemme start with a lil bit of physics - VIBGYOR(Violet, Indigo, Blue, Green, Yellow, Orange, Red) - this is only portion of light that is visible to us humans. Because our eyes have cones that can only detect these colors and all these colors add up to form…
Let me start by breaking a myth ༄: transformation is not a one-time event. It is not something that happens once and stays forever. Transformation is a continuous process ◎ . It lasts only as long as you choose to keep growing, improving, and evolving. When I say transformation ⚘ , I’m not talking only about money, looks, or success. I mean the complete upgrade of a person — mentally, physically,…
Yes, Humanity over any religion. Humanity should never be compromised at any cost. Everyone has the freedom to believe in their own religion, and I am not against any religion. From what I understand, no religion is completely wrong. Every religion has many good values and teachings. But there are also certain cultural norms and practices that, in my opinion, have no real connection to God…
For a long time, my idea of being in a relationship was very different from what it is today. Especially as a girl growing up in India, I had this strong stereotype in my mind that having a boyfriend was almost like committing a crime. It felt like something you were not supposed to do. Along with that, I also believed that relationships were a complete waste of time. I used to think they would…
The phrase "self-pity is the best luxury" is often used ironically or critically, suggesting it's a tempting but ultimately harmful indulgence that prevents taking responsibility, though some also see temporary self-pity as a valid, brief moment for processing pain before moving forward, highlighting the difference between unhealthy dwelling and healthy reflection. It's a comforting escape but a…
You know how we get stuck in the same routine without even realizing it? Well… my wake-up call came from a pair of ear studs. I’ve been wearing the same pair of ear studs for the past 10 years :) They’re simple gold studs with a tiny pearl design around them—nothing dramatic, just classic. And honestly, I had convinced myself that only those studs suited me. Like some weird stereotype I created…
I’ve always loved building things for myself — tiny tools, random ideas, and those mini “attempt” projects I keep writing about in my blog. Earlier, I wrote about my attempt at starting a series EP. Today, I want to talk about something much bigger : my attempt to build a full web app for myself. This wasn’t just another project. This was a whole journey about how my ideas evolved, how I figured…